Getting over divorce for women is a hard thing to sort out. You have given up a lot already having a family and attempting to please everyone. Now the end has come and you find yourself divorced for whatever reason and you are full of emotions. This is not unusual, those feelings and emotions are those of fear, sadness, anger, and probably betrayal.
Woman getting over divorce feel fear of being on your own. You have been with him for years and right now you have no idea how to live without him. You are able to live without him it is going to take a few changesbut you will be fine in the long run.
With divorce comes along with it freedom. You no longer must hustle home for him. If in case you have children you must continue to care for them but not having him in your life will free up some time because you do not need to clean up after him anymore, you do not need to do what he wants anymore, you can watch and do anything you want to do.
Women getting over divorce feel sadness or hurt. This only stands to reason. You committed your life to him and now he is gone. Regardless of whether you wanted the divorce the reality of it often hits like a ton of bricks. Clearly there was a reason you planned to leave him if it was your idea so he still let you down in some way.
Women getting over divorce will feel anger. He has let you down and now you are stuck with the financial obligations on your own. You have got the children whereas he has total freedom. You are angry at everything he has done to you and put you through along with everything that he never did for you.
Severalwomen getting over divorce will feel betrayal. Betrayal that he did not do what he said he would do or just that he left you. You can actually feel betrayed regardless of who decided to break it off. There continues to be a broken promise somewhere within your lives together that brought this on in the first place.
Let these emotions go. Cry, throw something, punch a pillow, scream at the top of your lungs, anything which may cause you to feel better at the moment. Get all of it out. These feelings have got to run there course to be able to get over them.
Your feelings and emotions are normal. Everybody's experiences are different and everybody's feelings are different. Just because your sister or best friend did not feel like you do does not make something wrong with you or them. Everybody deals with divorce in their own way.