While the question of making trouble is asked more by women, men apparently are much more prone to actually act on their instincts than women. The subject of this article is a study of this phenomenon and the level to which it can be taken by well-meaning people. Because forcing yourself on your Ex or their friends can have emotional and even physical dangers and illegal ramifications, it cannot be taken lightly. It is for this reason that we believe there are more men guilty of actually getting involved negatively in the lives of their Exes. A thorough understanding of these principles might, indeed, help to get your ex back. If you are trying to recover a broken relationship, your chance to win your ex back, will be heightened by knowing all these things.
Our perspective on this issue and phenomenon in our culture focuses on what we believe are two, separate degrees of same. The first category of ‘over involvement’ in your Ex’s life - in order to gain attention and/or reengage them vis-à-vis the relationship - is simply one of excessive, direct contact and a general level of ‘pushing yourself’ at them. While obviously annoying, nonetheless, many people believe that it will actually yield positive results to ‘be around more’.
Assumedly, the evidence of study and survey reflects the opposite outcome. Those people who have become a nuisance in the lives of their Ex are rarely successful in reigniting their lost relationship. It seems clear that even the least enlightened Ex will be forced to view your current excesses in their life to be a reflection of future expectations if they did, indeed, get back together with you.
The other - and more alarming category of unwanted advances or involvement - is what we refer to as the ‘if I can’t have you’ category. This refers to the primarily male counter-involvement in your Ex’s life to the point of physically threatening other, outside advances in their direction. If your Ex attempts to date someone and you follow them around, eventually ending up at the home of their Date and physically threatening them - this is typically a Malicious Trespass or Threatened Assault Misdemeanor. We think, therefore, that it goes without saying that this is certainly an extreme, dangerous and illegal level of over-involvement in your Ex’s life. If you are attempting to get ex back from a breakup caused by the absence of these things, take heed.
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Author Resource:-> James Roberts is Senior Article Editor for What-Why-How researching and writing on numerous topics. To find out more you can click here .
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