Everybody is aware how fragile relationships can be, requiring every ounce of love and nurturing that you can shower on it. It's very easy to get it wrong and ignore the needs of our partner and equally difficult to show consideration and thought and do things the right way. There are innumerable ways in which we hurt them - tiny little actions that can cause irreparable damage to a relationship. Before long, you are heading towards a break up and one fine day, you find yourself being left by the only person you happen to love. As you see them walk away from your life, there's only thought that seems to course through your mind - how to get your ex back.
Break ups are never easy and most people tend to flow with their emotions and act instinctively without thinking things through. You are not sure how to win your ex back and almost everything you seem to be doing is pushing them further away from you. It may not be easy to regain lost love, but there are certain ways to get your ex-back without coming across as needy, desperate or obsessive. Here are some tips that will tell you what to do in this situation.
1. Calm down and Pull yourself Together
Like I mentioned before, it's natural for people to get emotional after a break up and, more often than not, the technique they choose to win their ex back does more harm than good. As the old saying goes - "Think with your head and not your heart." That's exactly what you need to do now. Control all the intense emotions washing over you and get a grip on yourself. Know that being foolhardy is only going to push your ex away and alienate his/her affections for you. Clear your head, think practically, and start working on how to get back your ex.
2. Keep the Doors of Communication Open
This might be really difficult for you but try and stay in touch with your ex - and I don't mean in the creepy stalker-like way. Short phone calls, friendly (not "soppy") e-mails and text messages should be exchanged every now and then, even if it is to discuss casual things like work or college. You go AWOL on your ex and they will think that you've already moved on. Are you sure you want to give out that kind of signal?
3. Give your Ex Some Space
Of all the ways to get your ex-back, this one is probably the most important. This might seem to contradict my earlier advice of keeping in touch, but they are two very separate thing. If at every given instance, you can do nothing more than remind your ex of the break up, or ask him/her to come back to you, or give you one more chance, or wipe the slate clean and begin over, you're making them feel stifled and claustrophobic. And that's what you shouldn't do. Step back, give your ex some space and allow him/her to ponder over the situation.
There are no clear cut rules that can tell you how to get your ex back. But the tips outlined above ensure that you don't go out and make a fool of yourself in front of your ex.
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