Guys, are you longing for that beautiful girl in the office but have no idea how to talk to her? Do you even think she is in the same league as you? Do you go home at night trying to muster up the courage to talk to her...let alone get up the nerve to ask her out?
I can tell you what your first problem is. You have no confidence. You have a feeling that your are going to get shot down and that's exactly what is going to happen if you go in with that mind set. You need to reverse your thinking and be confident. So when you go to talk to her she will know that you are worth spending time on.
Girls are born to be attracted to confident men. It is in their nature to be attracted to a strong, confident leader of a man. Do you know what that's called? It is called being an Alpha Male. And it is exactly what you need to be.
Do you end up being the guy those girls "talk" to about other dudes? That's puts you in the worst position possible. It is time you changed that and start putting your foot down. You are not going to get a girl by being their friend. You need to break that cycle and make them know that your are an attractive option for them to date.
It is time for you take the initiative and making the girls know that you are the Alpha male that need to pay attention to. Remember the golden rule. Nice guys finish last. There is a reason for that. Ladies do not want the nice guy they want the man who loves himself first. It is time for you to make the right decision on getting better women today.