One of the most emotional times in our lives can be the break up of someone who we have been dating or even married to for a number of years. It can be very hard to just shut off our love for another. When we are in this state of mind one of, if not the main, question we may ask ourselves is, can I get my ex to love me again?
It can be extremely hard for us to understand all the nuances of a break up and even the one who initiates the break up may not understand all the particulars. I have noticed over the past 20 years of counseling that it is not that easy to get over that someone special we have spent so much time with and have loved. Here are a couple things that might give you a glimmer of hope so that you can believe in your mind that thought of I can get my ex to love me again.
If your ex maintains contact with you then there is always hope. I have seen the ex call every day just to talk. If that is not a tell tale sign I do not know what is. No if your ex does not call every day don t get in a panic. Are there little signs that he or she still wants to be in your life? Do they call every so often to ask a question or two? Just those little things that gives you a glimmer of hope because they want to be where you are at.
Does your ex show any type of emotion when talking to you or when they are around you? Any kind of emotion at all shows that there are some feelings still pent up inside of your ex. Even anger can be a sure sign of feeling because we do not get angry over something or someone we do not care about. Now make sure that if there is physical anger that you run do not walk as far away as possible. No physical abuse is ever warranted and if there has been or it starts then you do not want that ex back period!
I know that it is a challenge for you as you think can I get my ex to love me again? I have to tell you that if there is a glimmer of hope the answer is a resounding yes. I remember one couple that had been separated for over six months when I met her. She confided in me about their relationship and I ask if he would come and talk with me. Low and behold after the three of us talked a while and set up a few subsequent visits they have been back together and loving each other for over a year now. It looked hopeless yet there were a couple of things that gave a glimmer of hope and as we sprung off of those they found great results. It only takes a spark to get a fire going.
Is there a glimmer of hope in your relationship? If you want to answer the question can I get my ex to love me again then you need to make a commitment to succeed and put forth the effort needed.
Author Resource:
Check out my site at http://exlovemeagain.com for great resources on winning you ex back. Read another article by CJ Pendleton here http://ezinearticles.com/?Four- (4)-Ways-to-Get-Your-Ex-Back-and-Patch-Things-Up&id=3005929
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