Well, your main squeeze has broken up with you, leaving you with the dire hope that maybe, just maybe you can still get them back. Regardless of whom broke up with whom, you could have your work cut out for you. The key thing to recognize here is, when you're considering getting an ex back, there are certain tactics that you should avoid using at all costs:
1. Excessive Contact
You had best refrain from contacting your ex excessively in a desperate attempt to win them back. Undoubtedly, not contacting your ex at all often works best. By not contacting them, you're allowing both your ex and yourself time to "cool down" from the events that led to the break up while also keeping yourself omitted from your ex's life so that they may have the time to miss having you in their life. Annoy them to death with constant calls and texts, begging and pleading for a second chance, however, and you'll only be reinforcing their first idea that perhaps the two of you should just go your separate ways.
2. Apologize
Now, before you start shaking your head here, I agree, a well timed and meaningful apology when you are in the wrong may be the appropriate first move towards fixing a failed relationship. On the other hand, getting back an ex requires more than merely constantly apologizing for anything and everything. Even if you were unquestionably in the wrong, excessive apologies can merely make you seem desperate and vulnerable. More than that, actually, your ex may begin to lose his or her respect for you, viewing you as "weak" or "whiny."
3. Keeping Tabs On Your Ex
It is quite likely that you'll feel necessitated or tempted to discover what your ex is up to now that he or she isn't in your everyday life. However, checking up on him or her is a not at all a good idea. Don't monitor their profiles on social networking sites whenever possible. Additionally, you have got to avoid talking to or asking their friends about them. Remind yourself that, anything you say to or ask of your ex's friends will almost positively be relayed to your ex promptly and perhaps even in an overstated way. You may, very well, come off as being insecure which your ex-partner will see as unattractive and possibly even downright revolting.
The most fitting thing that you can do when you've just been dumped, believe it or not, is most often to just allow your ex a little space. Do not make yourself appear desperate and insecure with constant text messages and phone calls. Take a step back, and enjoy some time to yourself. And finally, you'll want to keep in mind the preceding usual mistakes so that getting an ex back doesn't have to be more difficult than it absolutely has to be.
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