If you've been part of the dating scene for a while, you know it's true - once you become interested in a woman, you will do almost anything to make her notice you. If it's a good match, after a date or two, your fondness may just increase, making you even more determined to keep her around. By the time you realize you're starting to fall for a girl, it's too late to turn back - you're ready to move ahead and you need her to be ready too. In the interest of helping you to cement the relationship, you want to make her fall in love with you, just as you have fallen for her. Here are seven ways to get a woman to fall in love with you:
1. Compliment Her: Generally, women love to be complimented. You can compliment her on the dress that she wears, her hair, eyes, etc. but do it in such a way that it will not sound phony. You won't have a hard time in complimenting her if your compliments come from the heart. For added mileage, try to think of compliments that don't all center on her physical appearance. If you comment on how much you admire her relationship with her grandmother, or on how well she relates with children, for example, you are showing that you really notice what's important to her, and not just what she can do for you.
2. Be Thoughtful: Always remember the little things like the hints that she leaves during your dates, such as what kind of flowers she likes, what her favorite color is, and what her favorite foods are. These little comments can translate to HUGE mileage for you when you show up with take-out from her favorite restaurant or the brand of treats she likes to feed her cat. She'll undoubtedly be impressed with your attentiveness and caring.
3. Be Funny: Women love nothing better than someone who has a good sense of humor. Humor adds spice to what could be boring situations, and helps keep things light during tough times. However, just like complimenting, having a sense of humor should come naturally or else it will sound fake and your jokes will fall flat. The key here is not to work too hard. Be yourself, and your natural sense of fun and humor will shine through.
4. Make Her Feel Important: Whenever you are together, avoid looking at your watch every 15 minutes or checking your cell phone and email constantly. These ordinary habits can create an impression that you have something better to do, or that you're waiting for something better to come along. If you are able to truly set your work and life aside when you spend time with your special lady, she'll feel like the most important thing in your life, and you'll be well on your way to getting her to fall in love with you.
5. Avoid Being Possessive: Although women love the attention that you give them, don't be possessive. There's no need to ask her where she's been and where she's going next - if it's meant to be, the relationship needs to be a trusting one from the start. Give your girl some space. By demonstrating your trust and granting her the freedom she deserves, you will stand head and shoulders above most guys.
6. Spontaneity: Send her flowers and chocolates even if there is no special occasion. Women love surprises, and surprising her once in a while will surely make her like you more. Shake things up once in a while - show up with a limo instead of your Jetta, or maybe surprise her with tickets to see her favorite team play.
7. Be Flexible: Learn to enjoy what she loves to do - if this includes watching sappy movies with her, window shopping with her, or playing her favorite sports, so be it! Love is about sharing, and women love to have a man with whom they can share their hobbies and passions.
With any luck, these tips have provided you with some guidance that will prove more powerful than cupid's arrows in creating and building a loving relationship. Frankly, if you follow all of these suggestions, you'll be hard-pressed to avoid making her fall in love!