Let me as you a brutally frank question. Do you agree that approaching women and chatting them up will be a piece of cake if not for those damn nerves? You are? Then you are very honest with yourself. From my observation, most men are except for the lucky gifted or thick skinned few.
Most men will agree that the most terrifying part of picking up girls is to garner enough confidence in the initial approach to chat with her. The mere thought of it sent shudders up your spine, didn t it? This is especially true if the women of your desire is a stunning beauty.
Well, this is a common problem shared by most men. But until you overcome this natural but irrational fear approaching girls, you will lose out dating many beautiful women because you simply do not approach and chat them up or even if you do so, you will probably end up like a bundle of nerves and embarrass yourself even more. Further to this basic unpleasantness, women will also sense your jittery nerves and will get turned off.
So unless you correct this horrible irrational fear of approaching beautiful girls, you may find yourself trapped in the vicious cycle of fear of approaching women with no way out, perhaps even forever! However, if you master the art, you will find that approaching and chatting up the woman you fancy for the first time, making her laugh and getting her phone number will be a piece of cake.
So how do you pluck up that courage and confidence to approach and talk to the girl you are attracted to? Well, the first thing you should do is to desensitize yourself to women.
You see, most of the fear of meeting, approaching and chatting girls comes from the fact that you simply don t do it often enough. Yup, you read that right. If I am to guess correctly, some of you may never have even done it before.
No, I am not talking about women you already know, I am talking about that chick you have never seen before but have caught your fancy at the bar. So get some practise now, go ahead and approach her, then another and another until approaching women is as normal to you as stepping into a 7 11 joint to buy a can of soda.
If you are still nervous then practice and practise. Even if you fumbled up, what is the big deal anyway, you would probably never see her again. But think about it, what if you start to see success again and again? A thrilling thought, don t you think? But for that to happen, you must begin appraoching women!
Hey, don t freak out just yet because you don t even need to start a conversation. You see, your goal is just to take the fear out of the approach. So just go and say, Hi, how is it going? with a friendly smile and then walk away. Do this to a few women everyday until your irrational fear is gone and that is when you can chat with them easily.
This is the first step to conquer your fear of meeting, approaching and chatting with women. Once you get past this stage, you can then learn other ways to start a conversation easily as you no longer have any inhibition in approaching beautiful girls!
What do you say to that huh? Go on, try it now!
Author Resource:
Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at http://www.sgfitness.com and http://www.seductionflirt.com
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