Does your Christian marriage require support? If so, take some minutes to step back and consider this common Christian marriage advice - straight from the Bible.
1. Give Your Marriage to God
Most "Christian marriages" are Christian in name simply. One or both spouses claim to be Christians, and they assume then that their marriage is similarly "Christian. " It doesn't work that method. To be a Christian is to be not simply a believer in, but also a follower of Jesus Christ. Does your marriage truly believe in Christ? Does your family follow Christ?
The first thing you need to do is devote (or re-dedicate) your marriage and family to God. Place your marriage on the altar. Give it to God. Don't attempt to "control" your marriage or your spouse. Give it all to God. From this day forward, your marriage ought to be God's marriage.
2. Re-commit Yourself to God
Before you re-commit your marriage to God, you could need to do that with your own life. In reality, we should put ourselves on the altar per day (Romans 12: 1-3). Are you living for your self? Are you attempting to make yourself happy and/or expecting your spouse to make you happy?
As bestselling author and pastor Rick Warren puts it: "You were produced by God and for God, and until you understand that, life will never seem sensible. " Give God back the keys to your life. Give Him control.
3. Pray With no Ceasing
Prayer is not so much about petitioning God and asking Him for points. It is related to spending time with God and bringing your self into a deeper collaboration with Him. Truly beneficial prayer isn't potential until you've done the preceding step, which is to give yourself to God. Once you have finished that, pray with no ceasing.
Pray. Pray. Pray. Never discontinue praying. Pray in the morning, during the day, and at night. Pray although you're driving. Pray in the excellent times and in the bad times. And, nowadays, if you are trying to place your marriage back together, then pour your self out to God in one day (as David does in the Psalms). Give all your burdens, cares, and stresses to the Lord.
4. Love Your Spouse Unconditionally
This is the tough part. You ought to love your husband or wife unconditionally. (Side note: In case you are in an abusive partnership, especially one that's putting you in danger, get out of the house and search for support! You must still love your spouse, nevertheless you do not need to place your self in any additional danger). Assuming that you're not in any physical risk, you should commit to loving your spouse unconditionally - and expressing that love in usual, practical methods.
If you want to know about unconditional love, look at the example of Jesus. You need to also read I Corinthians 13. By putting these four rules into exercise, you will see positive results in your Christian marriage.