You are probably feeling devastated and helpless, wondering how you are going to be getting your husband back. While you are feeling horrible right now, take heart and know that it is possible to get him back. If you think there is a realistic chance to get back together, there are some very good techniques and steps you can take work at to winning him back.
Recovery begins by mourning. It is okay to mourn the loss of your husband. The process of mourning and grieving is healthy. It has been shown that the grief suffered after a breakup is similar to that of the death of someone you love dearly. During this period you do have to take care of yourself. You need to eat properly and get enough sleep and some exercise. Also, don t let alcohol or drugs become a crutch for you.
After you get over the initial shock of the breakup, you should begin to look at what went wrong with your relationship. Remember, no one is blameless, even if he did something bad, like cheating on you, the seeds were sown before he actually cheating. This is not to condone his behavior, it s just to help you see what isn t working in your marriage.
Another important reason to evaluate your marriage is to decide if you want to work at improving this or do you want to move on. If you want to try to save your marriage, once you understand what happened in your marriage you will be able to move forward to the next step.
If you have decided to repair your marriage, it is now time to work at fixing the problems. Remember, while you might be blaming the breakup on your spouse, you should have found things that you can work on to help you get back together. So, the question is, what can you do to get back together. An issue might be that he doesn t think you understand him, so you will need to honor his uniqueness.
Now the next step might not make any sense and may even insult you, but you need to take some of the blame for the breakup and apologize. The reason being is that usually a man s ego is larger than a woman s and after a failure like this his confidence has taken a hit, so he needs to be built back up. If you are feeling that the breakup was largely your husband s fault this may be a bitter pill to swallow, but if you want to fix your marriage, the two of you are going to have to work together.
As has been discussed throughout this article, you need to focus on yourself, taking care of yourself and deciding what you can do to improve your marriage. While it is hard for us to look ourselves in the mirror at times, it is something we must do. By finding areas where you can take action to improve your relationship, you have already taken steps to fixing your marriage.
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