It's never easy asking for help, but in golf, it is almost a necessity. Unfortunately, we often ask our buddies and partners, when in reality we should take a lesson or two. We think that a Pro would critique harshly, but they are honest, positive and very helpful. Lessons at the local course aren't as expensive as you might think and they are worth it because your game will improve rapidly and cause you less frustration, making the game much more enjoyable for you.
Of utmost importance, is being honest about your game. The Pro will ask you what you want to start with; driving, chipping, putting or whatever you feel you need help with. Listen carefully and follow the instructions. You may have doubts if the Pro changes your stance, your grip or your swing; the Pro knows best. Don't hesitate to ask questions. Don't worry about if the question or concern in stupid-they've heard it all before and will not make you feel like an idiot for asking.
If you don't "get it", tell him/her that you?re not getting it. You should never walk away from a lesson with unanswered questions. You can concentrate on one thing during a lesson, or several. You might start with a lesson in driving; get the right grip, the right stance, the right swing, the right follow-through in one lesson, and then practice it. Next time, you might work on your short game, or putting. You've invested in the equipment, doesn't it make sense to learn how to use them to their advantage and improve your abilities?