In this article I will show you how to get back with your ex girlfriend, even if she currently doesn't want anything to do with you.
You may think that winning your girlfriend back is not going to be easy, and you are right. If you go down the path that most guys choose when they want to win her back you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
The path I am talking about is when you try desperate tactics such as constantly ringing her begging to be given another chance. You need to face facts. She has gone because she no longer wants to be near you, so you contacting her regularly is not going to make her want to come back to you. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to put all the hurt that you are feeling behind you, and start playing it smart!
I know that this is going to go against everything that you are feeling, and that the pain of a break up can often leave you behaving irrationally, but you need to stop any contact with her straight away if you want any chance of winning her back.
After your girlfriend has left you, she will expect you to behave in a particular way. She will expect phone calls, tears, you turning up at her place, and so on. You need to do the complete opposite if you want to get her back.
You need to make her think that you are moving on and acting maturely. You need to let her see that you can confidently do without her. On a psychological level, she will be confused by your reaction, and she will want to know why you are not doing the things that she expected you to do. This will keep her guessing and wondering if there is more to you than she realized.
The thing is that regardless of the fact that she has broken up with you, your behaviour will keep you in her mind, and that is exactly what you want to happen if you want to get back with your girlfriend. Girls are drawn to men who radiate confidence. If you can prove to her that this is the person that you are, then there is a huge chance that she will contact you before you contact her.
It is important that you pay attention to this if you want to get back with your ex. Resist the urge to run to her and pleading for her to take you back. This is not the type of guy she wants.
Play it cool, play it smart, even though the thought of doing nothing may feel unbearable. Your paths are going to cross sooner than you think, and that is the time to show her who you are.
Let us switch the situation. If you had left someone, and that someone turned up at your door crying, pleading, and pestering you, would you be interested in getting back with her? The way that you behave during the first week or two will decide whether there is any chance to get back with your ex girlfriend, so don't blow it.
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