You may find several articles in the internet telling you the do’s and don’ts on how to get a girlfriend. And being the guy who, let’s face it, desperately wants to have one, you have read through these self help guides and you may have even bought an e book about it.
These so called “tips and tricks” are all well and good to read. But what most of these articles fail to realize is that talking about the solution is a whole lot different than doing the actual suggestion. Let us uncover how to actually use some of the known ways suggested by most how to get a girlfriend articles to lead to tangible fruition.
•Be yourself – This suggestion is not only used in such instances, it is also regurgitated in books that offer help from landing a job, to running in politics. However, in reality, you can never be your self immediately in front of a woman you are trying to attract. You do not hash out your crazy side of say, liking to turn cute little animals into cute little kitchen appliances immediately. You have to ease the crazy in little by little.
•Be confident – But how can you be confident if she makes your palms all sweaty and her beauty is so surreal, you get tongue tied? This is where a charming honest quip will come in handy. Say you are trying to be all manly confident and then you mess up by saying something incredibly dumb? Just laugh it out and say that she makes you so nervous because of her pretty eyes. It may be a dorky move but it is a pretty nice save on your part. It will also make her laugh which is another plus.
•Be funny – This maybe easy for guys like Chris Rock or Jim Carrey but for an average Joe, this suggestion may lead to an awkward “knock, knock” joke. At most, try to slip in some dry and witty observations that you think are interesting. Who knows, you might make her crack a smile or two.
•Be interesting – This is a very unhelpful suggestion, especially if it contradicts with the first one, “be yourself”. If you are as interesting as a piece of dry bread that even a bum on the street won’t dare nibble on, then try focusing the conversation more on her. This will give you the chance to cover up your oh so boring life and you will get to know a great deal about her in the end. Now if she ends up leading a life as interesting as yours, then throw in a comment like “well, aren’t we two peas in a pod?” or something like that.
In actuality, all self help books on how to get a girlfriend are right theoretically. But getting them from print to real life is where it gets really hard. A quick rule of thumb in order to make the most out of such “tips,” always think of how this will play on the field to let you know what you will actually do come game time.
Author Resource:
Bobby Roberts has been giving tips to guys on how to get girlfriend at http://www.attractiondominator.com/ . This is to prevent painful rejection from any women they want. Read his review about DoubleYourDating eBook at http://www.attractiondominator.com/tips/double-your-dating-ebook/ .
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