Let's face it, not all girls are 'the one' and some are going to leave you for another guy and break your heart. The good news for you is, that there are more girls that are better out there, and all you need are some helpful hints in order to get over a girl that left you for another guy and move on to a new and healthier relationship.
It is wrong for someone to leave their partner for another person, we all know that. The real question is, why did she leave you to begin with. Sometimes it is not your fault whatsoever and in this case, there is nothing that you could have done to change it. Some girls get bored in a steady relationship and go out looking for "excitement" in someone new.
If you are the one to blame for the reason why she left, then you should sit down and think about what you could have done differently. This will not help get your ex back, but it will help you move on and have a better chance of getting it right with the next girl.
Soon you will get to the point to where you can honestly analyze your own behavior and when that happens, you will be able to accept that the relationship truly is over and that you will be able to look forward to the future. Your breakup is really a learning experience for you, because you can figure out what went wrong and avoid that in future relationships.
Many guys make the mistake of rushing out and dating again, because they feel lonely. This is only a mistake, because you have not been able to heal and find your real self again. You have to be able to get used to being single and doing things alone once more. This does not mean that you should go around, hooking up with random girls, but instead start going out and doing activities that you like to do. You may find that there were some hobbies or activities you liked that your ex did not, so you never got to participate in those. This would be the perfect time to go and participate in them now.
Use this new found "me time" to focus on your future and try to become a better person. This will help you not only get over a girl that left you for another guy, but it can bring about new and better relationships in the future.
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