How often do you meet girls that you just don't find attractive? How many girls do you think of as just friends or sisters? Now, how much time do you spend chatting with these girls? Since you don't consider them dating or relationship material, chances are you don't think much about your interactions with these girls. This is about to change because there are some big benefits to chatting up girls even if you don't want to sleep with them or take them out on a date.
Building Confidence
You can always consider time spent chatting up girls you have no real interest in good firsthand experience. Whether you are interested in spending more time with them or not, the more time you spend talking to girls the more confident you will feel in their presence.
If you spend a lot of time chatting up girls you are less likely to panic or feel anxious when a girl you really are interested in is sitting across from you or standing right next to you. If you spend very little time in the presence of girls, then you are definitely going to be very awkward and nervous.and it's going to show!
The Power of Girl Friends
There is a solid theory that girls are attracted to men who other girls find attractive. If all her friends are talking about you in a positive light, then she is more likely to think about you herself and want to spend time with you. Girls want what other girls want because they think there is something valuable in you that these other girls see.
So, surrounding yourself with female friends will help girls you are interested in take notice of you. If you spend more time chatting up girls you aren't interested in you can build more female friendships that work to your benefit with other girls.
Learning about Girls
While chatting up girls that you aren't interested in you can learn more about girls in general. You can learn what they like to talk about and then use that when starting up conversations with girls you are interested in. You will also be more up to date on things girls think about and like so you seem more in the loop and knowledgeable when you do find girls you want to impress.
How Do You Sound?
Don't be afraid to try out new lines and listen to your own voice while chatting up girls you aren't interested in seriously. Experiment and see how they respond to different tones of voice, different physical postures, and different conversation starters or topics. It won't hurt nearly as bad to be shot down by these girls than it would to be shot down by someone of more interest to you.
Getting Feedback
Finally, don't be afraid to ask for feedback on your pick-up skills when chatting up girls you don't want a romantic relationship with. You can outright ask for feedback at the end of a conversation, or you can just see how they respond to you and take that as your feedback. Positive responses from these girls may translate into similar responses from girls that you do want to impress.
Think of chatting up girls as a hobby that you want to do every single day of your life. It doesn't matter what they look like or how much potential they have for a future mate. It's all about experience and growth.
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If you want to be big on the dating scene then you are going to have to learn seduction techniques and skills that are incredibly simple, shockingly powerful, and that produce results. Learn about chatting up girls by talking to girls you do not want to date.
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