No one would want to be on the receiving end of a breakup letter from his/her partner, more so an email or a text message. It is hurtful enough to learn that the person you love is ending things with you, but to receive it through text message?
There are ways on how to avoid this situation and stay in your relationship happily for a longer time, if not forever.
Every relationship needs to be worked at continuously. Amidst all the constant demands of your separate career or domestic life at home, your partner should be on top of your priority list. But there are times when we do get carried away by certain situations, like your best friend's problems or your office affairs can make you spend more time sorting these things out making your partner feel neglected or ignored. This is one of the common reasons why relationships end; one partner feels neglect and therefore wants out.
How can you avoid this from happening?If you are able to get on it early on, you may just need to refocus your time on your partner and give him the attention he deserves. You also need to reassure your partner that he/she is important in your life by spending more quality time with him/her. You can start by doing some small stuff for your spouse, taking the kids out for a day so she can take a breather; or making his favorite breakfast in bed to spend more quality time together.
There are three keys to a more successful relationship. Love, mutual respect and consideration. A relationship cannot last without all three, so it is best that you always bear this in mind and never forget to love, respect and be considerate to your partner every single day. Practice makes perfect, even in relationships.
The love part is perhaps the easiest to give since this comes naturally. You wouldn't still be together if you are not in love with your better half. Showing mutual respect can sometimes be overlooked, like putting your partner down without realizing it. This is one thing every couple in a relationship needs to inject all the time, respecting your spouse is important in dealing with them every day of your life.
Consideration is perhaps the most difficult thing of the three to do as it entails being selfless as well. Most of us have a tendency to be selfish about a lot of things, whether about our own careers or some household matters. You will need to be mindful of your partner first and think about what he/she will feel before embarking on important decisions or tasks that can affect your relationship.
Realizing that your relationship needs attention is the first step to saving what you have with your partner.
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