If you were just dumped by your partner, you are probably not in the best position to get what you want at this time, and that is to get your ex back. You will need to go back to the time when he/she first fell in love with you, and you have to do this gently without forcing yourself too much.
However, since you are trying to get your ex to fall back in love with you, then they must have fallen in love with you before, which makes it a little less difficult for you now. It means that since they fell in love with you the first time around, there should be a good chance that they can do it all over again.
Thinking about the situation theoretically is different from actually making it happen. So how do you go about it? It is never easy to convince someone into a relationship with you.
You have to refrain yourself from pressuring your partner back into your arms. This is how it usually goes when one party forces the other back into their relationship, and it may succeed for some but it could not work out fine again in the end. If you really want your ex back because you care and love him/her, you do not want to pressure your ex into doing anything they do not want at the time.
The first thing that you should do to get back to the phase where you first fell in love with each other is to become the person your ex first fell in love with. It is very common that partners through time changes and it can be one of the main reasons of your break up. You have to rediscover the person that you were, and let that personality come out again to show your ex how and why he/she loved you in the first place. This may seem like a pretty obvious strategy at first, but it can work if you can consistently be this person through the end.
Also, you will need to put your pride and stubbornness aside when you really want to get your ex back. Clinging to old arguments will do you no good, it can even break you before you've even started. You will therefore need to go through the motions of being your old self for the sake of your ex, and sticking it out for the sake of your relationship... This is no easy task, but with the reward of getting your love of your life back in mind, you should be able to go through the steps with patience and gentleness and win your partner back for good.
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