I bet loads of guys have had this where you had a great interaction with the girl and things seemed so on at the time. You took her number and began texting. Maybe she texted back a few times but then you sense she stops committing so much. Slowly she fades out till she doesn't text at all. You end up bitter and thinking she is a bitch.
Well here is what happened. Girls will only act on their emotions. If she was feeling good emotions at the time then she will respond positively to you. Slowly as you go out of her life and she gets on with other things those feelings fade. Now she doesn't feel those things any more then she is less inclined to reposnd to you. Instead of being this mysterious fun guy you now seem like some creepy stranger to her and she feels uncomfortable and stops responding. So what to do?
Well there are the emotions of the moment which we take advantage of but there are also far more powerful mechanisms in the mind that we can also use to our advantage to make the girl chase us and thus override her losing those emotions. Through a process called committment and consistency when a girl starts chasing you she becomes commmitted to doing it. The more committed someone is to something the more consistent they will act in future to acting in the same way. Think of the initial good emotions as the tinder of a fire. Paper will burn brightly for a bit then go out but likewise it's still an important part of building a fire. On the other hand coal and wood will burn for much much longer and it is a real lasting heat. So we want to go for the second one.
When you get a girl commmitted to the interaction she will chase you to irrational levels and not even realize what she is doing till she is in your bed. So how do we do this?
Firstly you want to give her opportunities to put in effort to the interaction. Too many guys through being nervous will just steamroll the conversation and not let her get a word in edgeways. So on a high point ask her a quesiton and wait for her to respond. This should start her investing in the interation. Other things you can do while with the girl are structuring opportunities for her to keep furthering the interaction with you. For example asking if she would like to come and sit with you or come to meet your friends. Now these points will be make or break and they will take a good deal of practice to know when the right time is to do them. You have to be able to feel when that is. If you don't then even if you were having a good interaction before and she rejects your offer then if you act bothered then it will screw the interaction up. SO long as you don't act phazed at all it wouldn't matter and you could continue on like nothing happened. So I guess the best rule of thumb is to try these things out and never act bothered by her repsonses.
So those tips should help you on your path if you can't find a girlfriend.
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I have been studying and practicing the game for over 5 years. I am now imparting my knowledge to whoever can't find a girlfriend
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