He knows what her gestures are trying to convey. She used to call him in the office during his lunch break, buy his black pug some dog food and invite him for a sushi meal at their favorite Japanese shop. Just when he thought she might be the one, she started to get cold. Now she has the busiest schedule, makes a lot of excuses and blurts out plenty of complaints about niggling matters in their relationship. She couldn't even make eye contact every time she speaks to him. It's obvious his girlfriend wants to break up.
For someone who was hit by Cupid so hard, letting go can mean a dreadful way of loving. So here are some tips that might help you save your relationship.
Know is she's having a hard time.
She might be behaving indifferently because of a dismaying event in her career, in her family or in her personal growth. When we are downhearted, we fail to acknowledge everything around us. At times, we isolate ourselves even from the people who care for us the most. If you can come up with strategies to know what she's really into, she might be grateful that you understand her in the most difficult time of her life.
Exert more effort.
In the song "One Hundred Ways" by James Ingram, one line says being cool won't help you keep a love warm. You have to generate a number of ideas to make her feel loved. Performing miraculous tricks such as stopping the rain, reaching the stars or moving a mountain is not necessary. Even the simple ways of a non-hero can get to her commitment. Don't forget that women value consistent little things. So keep them coming.
Humor her.
Do you remember that moment the joke was so funny you guffawed till you got watery-eyed? If you've done it before, you can probably do it once more. Researches about the advantages of humor to our system don't seem to matter. We can already feel it's a great stress reliever in the midst of pressure and worries. Make sure your jokes are not spiteful. If they are, you end up hurting her at a vulnerable time.
Don't threaten her.
If your girlfriend wants to break up with you, don't attempt to make your ex or another woman your accomplice to figure out how important you are in her life. This is unquestionably a misconception. She might assume that there's no point in ironing things out because of the other woman. Stick to your real issues. A problem can't be solved by entering into another one.
Get in touch with your feelings.
It's the best and bravest way to confront the issue. Tell her how uncomfortable you are with the situation and how hard it is for you to raise the white flag. At the same time, ask her to elaborate what went awry and how you can bring back the old happy days. Be courageous enough to listen to all possibilities. Stinging reasons such us, "There's a bookworm I met at the library a week ago." or "I'm falling out of love." might come out into the open.
If your girlfriend wants to break up, people around you may have varied opinions on how you should deal with it. Some would advise you to give her a nod as a sign of respect. Others would encourage you to reconcile with her against all odds. But if you'd choose the former, don't you think you won't have regrets in the future for not doing the latter?
The decision is yours.
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Think you could do those five? Good; see further detailed recommendations on maintaining a crumbled relationship in saving a relationship and fixing a broken relationship . Don't do the mistakes I did again when you know how to act it right.
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