It's going to sound a bit cliche, but no one has a good time when a relationship ends, especially when there is a whole lot of messiness involved. Even if your girlfriend was the one that broke up with you, it's a pretty good shot in the dark that she still finds herself wondering about you, and whether or not the two of you should get back together. And if you are reading this article, it's pretty safe to say that you must be wondering the same things.
So, how do you reconnect with her?
How do you get her back, before she moves on and is out of your life forever?
You have to realize that no matter what, it's not wise to assume that she will still be there forever. The fact is, people move on, even when they would really rather not. So, if you find yourself sitting at home and sulking about losing your girlfriend, you need to STOP immediately. That's not going to make her want to come back to YOU, it's going to make you feel terrible and nothing more.
What should you do?
Get out of the state of mind and start to understand where things went wrong and what you can and should do differently. Now, I hope this does not include you, but if you were abusive in any way with her, then you need to let her go and that's it. Assuming that you were not and that you just made the normal mistakes guys make, then you have to work on a plan of action to get her back.
You have to create or actually re-create that thing, that spark, that attracted her to you in the beginning. You have to be able to relight the flame. To do this, you have to go back to square one on some things. You cannot be jealous if she talks to another guy. You cannot expect that she will drop everything when you call her.
You have to flirt with her, build up her attraction, just like you would with any other woman that you meet. On the plus side, you have already got a place in her heart somewhere, so it should not take as long as it did in the beginning.
On the downside, bringing up the past with her will bring back the "bad" in the relationship, which is NOT a good thing.
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