So, you're looking for ways of getting back an ex and making them fall madly back in love with you? Well, if you're not careful in your approach, you can do much more harm than good. In fact, if you don't watch what you do, you could end up making your ex downright loathe you. The following are some surefire ways to guarantee that your ex will never give you the second chance that you feel you deserve:
1. Call, text, or otherwise contact your ex multiple times a day. If getting back an ex is your goal, it might seem like the most appropriate thing to do. After all, you just have to give it just one more shot, right? Or, maybe you have something different to say this time that will certainly get his or her attention and change their mind, right? Not likely.
2. Why not try reminding them how they said they loved you so much and how nothing would every change? Yes, that certainly might work, right? Perhaps they just forgot about those promises they made? Of course, the only thing you'll be reminding your ex how great an idea it was to leave you in the first place.
3. What about following their every move, showing up around every corner, and popping up around every bend of your ex's day to day path? Just don't forget to smile every time he or she sees your face. While you're at it, try to hold that smile when you're served with a restraining order as well.
4. Well, certainly, pestering your ex's friends couldn't hurt, could it? They won't mind if you ask over and over how your ex is doing, not at all. They'll just go back and have a big laugh with your ex about how much of a loser you are. I apologize for being blunt, but it's quite true.
5. But, what about the new man or woman in your ex's life? You don't really care what they think. You hate them on principle alone. Why not call them up and let them know that you are your ex's only real love, and how he or she can never replace you! Well, it's time for me to be blunt again, because your ex already has replaced you if your thinking about trying this one. And, to call the new love interest at all could actually serve more to bring he or she and your ex closer together as they both laugh at how desperate you've become.
6. Your ex's parents seemed to like you when the two of you were together. Why not call them up or drop by to casually see how they're doing? While you're at it, see if you can get them on your side. Well, I'll tell you why this isn't a good idea for getting back an ex. Your ex's parents are most likely going to stick by their son or daughter regardless of what you have to say. And, even if they somehow do take your side, then you've now created a wall or argument between your ex and his or her parents. Well done! There's just one more reason your ex has to hate you now!
Now, certainly there are ways to go about getting back an ex. Of course, if you utilize any of the preceding "strategies," you'll only end up having your ex hate you, never wanting to give you the time of day again! Don't make the mistake of following your heart blindly. In other words, just because an idea comes to mind naturally and seems quite logical, you should keep in mind that you'd be wiser to follow your head rather than your heart.
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