It can be hard to meet that special someone, especially these days when everyone is so busy. Gone are the days of elegant parties when the host would take care to introduce single men and women that he thought might like to strike up a friendship or a romance. With the social structure broken down, many people are left to wonder how they will every meet a mate. These are some suggestions on ways to find that special person.
All humans crave companionship. Especially as people approach certain milestones, like turning 30, they may start looking for a person with whom they can settle down and build a life. This can be particularly stressful for women, as they watch their friends get to have the fun of being brides, picking out a bridal gown and jewelry, flowers, etc. Many a woman, no matter how independent and successful she may be, has watched all her friends go down the aisle and wondered when she will the one picking out bridal jewelry and bouquets.
So how does a man or woman set about finding a person with whom they can settle down? Personal introductions are still a great way. You have the advantage of meeting a new friend who comes with recommendations. In other words, your mutual acquaintance thinks you may enjoy each other s company and he or she is a nice person in general, not some kind of crazy stalker (always a plus!). Be open with your friends if you are hoping to meet someone so that they know that you are open to their suggestions.
There are certain types of establishments of which it is said that the house makes the introduction . What that means is that the people that you meet there are not exactly complete strangers, more like friends that you have not met yet. Chances are that you have something in common with them. Churches and schools are the most common of these places. A place of business might also fall into this category, but workplace romance can be a risky proposition, and many companies flat our forbid it.
Believe it or not in the era of Internet dating, there are still old fashioned matchmakers out there. I once met one at a party, and she had a very high success rate of putting together couples who would eventually get married. The nice thing about a matchmaker is that, unlike a dating service, she spends time will all of her clients individually; since she gets to know them personally, she is much more able to match up compatible people than a computer. Matchmakers often specialize in certain religious or ethnic groups; the one I met worked exclusively within the Jewish community.
Then there is the Internet. Many people have certainly found their future husbands or wives through an online dating service like eHarmony or Match.com. There is no longer the stigma that used to be attached to finding a spouse this way. Online dating sites, however, have some definite disadvantages to them, including potential safety concerns. Exercise caution before meeting anyone you meet on the Internet in person.
Finally, keep your eyes and heart open to other possibilities. I once lived in a neighborhood where it was known that single professionals shopped at a certain same grocery store on Friday evenings hoping to lock eyes with someone in the produce department. Maybe in your neighborhood there is a bookstore or a cafe where people with interests similar to yours spend time. If you are having a hard time meeting people, think about signing up for an interesting class or volunteering. You may meet that special person, and even if you do not, at least you will be enriching your life.
Author Resource:
Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about relationships, weddings, and style. When you meet that special someone, treat yourself to fabulous bridal jewelry from http://silverlandjewelry.com/ and receive free shipping on your jewelry order over $99.
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