The most valuable gift for our children is your love as your children best friend rather than bossing your kids like immature slaves. You, the father and mother are older than your kids , may be you are more experienced in many things, but may be your kids still have a much better intuition given by God to know what is most important and how things really are done with love. May be in some aspects of life your kids may be more wise and superior to parents. When ever children do things differently from how you enjoy to have it done, may be you are right with your technique , but may be the kids are right with their way of doing something. Question and challenge your own methods before imposing your methods upon your young ones . May be both solutions are equally wrong or evenly right. May be both options are different but fully OK!.
Love for your young ones is totally free , yet there are very exact ways to truly prove your love for your kids. Some of the most effective presents money never can purchase are:
Respect the God given freedom of your kids . Give the all freedom they want and be a guardian spirit and living example on how to use this freedom. Instead of confining freedom or taking freedom away from young ones - prove them how to be free, prove them how to use freedom peacefully and with love by honoring the freedom and wholeness of all creation, of all humanity and nature while loving your own freedom. Give your young ones the freedom to waken when they want or go to bed when they feel tired or want to go to bed. Young ones have a far more opened energy system and may have a totally different inner clock than adults. Be a living example altogether you do - for your kids and others around you - adults and young ones - as well . Accept the curiosity of children as a gift from them - allow them at any given age to be with you, to watch you, to listen what you say or discuss with others. Children love to learn from their parents if their father and mother have something thrilling, creative or useful to do . The simplest way to grow and learn is by being allowed to follow adults , to learn and exercise adult work whenever the divine curiosity of children wants so. Allow them to spend time with you where ever you go.
Respect the desire of kids to have free time on their own, away from parents, even in very young age. Children are exactly like adults - curious and adventurous. They love to venture into new areas of activities , they love to widen their geographical range of actions as they develop and mature. The only way to safely allow them to grow adult and strong is by given them freedom and wise advice when ever they ask any question. By being allowed to spend time with you when ever they feel like and love to - you give them all the theoretic knowledge and basic practice while they live, work and venture with you - then after a while watching and practicing new activities with you - they may want to experience on their own. Such learning is natural behavior of all divine children. Here on earth as well as home in God. God never confines the freedom of anyone. God gives tips before you do something or go some place then if you end up away and exercise or experience or work - God is observing you, guarding you and always giving you helpful advice and guidance if you are constantly open for God.
Kids love to be handled with love and wisdom like all human being of any age!
Author Resource:
Hans Neukomm is a born farmer son, creator and publisher of the Cyberspace Ashram for Kriya Yoga , God and Love. A website entirely dedicated to solutions of love and teachings of love with chapters on gifts of love . Enjoy love tests .
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