Most men that really have a strong and tremendous desire to reconcile with their girlfriend have a very short sighted view on things. Now, of course this is natural. You feel the pain from breaking up with her and the first thing that you want to do is to relieve that pain that you feel. Go ahead and do this, but also remember that in order to win her back and keep her, you are going to have to look at things a bit differently this time.
You are going to have to take a more long term approach to winning her back, so that you do not have to go through this again.
What should you do?
Realize that the key to winning back your girlfriend is to be able to both demonstrate that things will be different AND to create a strong attraction with her again. At this point is where it all starts to unravel for most guys that try and get back with their ex-girlfriend. They do not try and win her back through attraction, but through more manipulative ways.
Guess what?
They usually fail to get her back. You cannot go through a breakup with your girlfriend and expect her to saunter back to you if there are no obvious changes. After all, there must have been a reason why the breakup happened in the first place. This is the reason why you have to make certain that you are willing to show by example that you indeed have made significant changes to your life.
And you also have to do a little of the romancing to win her back.
She has to feel that little spark that makes her heart flutter and her mouth gab to her friends about you. she probably felt this way when you first got with her, and she NEEDS to feel this way one more time.
You have to be the one that makes her feel this way again. So, you have to work on making yourself more attractive to your ex-girlfriend. You can do this by not allowing the breakup to break YOU.
That's the last thing that you want to happen.
When you feel broken down about the relationship breaking up, and you let your whole world come crashing down, you are not going to make your ex-girlfriend feel anything but sorry for you.
Here's the thing:
You must take careful note that you are working on a long term approach or method to attract her back. If not, you can easily find yourself winning her back for the short term, however, you really want to be able to win her back for the long term.
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