Lara was resisting my under the table touching at first.  When did she start reciprocating?  About five minutes after she realized that I’d hooked up with both of the other women at the table.  Don’t confuse this with Pre-selection.  Pre-selection is an attraction switch â€" one of the eight revealed in Magic Bullets - but I was well past Attraction at this point.  No, what this conveyed was that I was a guy who had women in my life and that I “get it.† I wasn’t jealous or controlling with the girls I’ve hooked up with.  I just enjoyed their company, and they mine.  Even though Karen and I were having boiling sexual tension, both of the other women looked on in approval as Lara and I started connecting physically.
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After a while of that, I sealed the deal when I leaned in to whisper in her ear:
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Me: What kind of women are you attracted to? [I’d already established that she has hooked up with women in the past.]
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Lara: [Lists some qualities]
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Me: What do you think of Karen?
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Lara: She’s beautiful... etc.
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Me: Well, no promises, but I’ll see if I can convince her to join us when we go home later.
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I want to make this clear â€" up to this point we’d never kissed, never really talked about sex, and certainly never discussed going home and having sex that night.  But when she passively accepted the frame that I set with the last line above, the question changed from “where is this going tonight?†to “will this be a regular hookup tonight or will it be a threesome?â€
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It’s similar â€" but far more effective â€" to when I used to joke around with women on dates about whether the night was going to end with us having sex once or twice.  Either choice I win, and even said jokingly, as long as she doesn’t object, it helps establish the frame.
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It seems like a little thing, but it’s not.  As I always emphasize when I teach, the dividing line between a woman sleeping with you or not sleeping with you can be exceedingly narrow.  Lara was fully intending to have a drink with me, flirt, maybe kiss a bit, but leave it at that.  This changed the game.
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Once I’d told Lara that I’d try to get Karen home with us, I fortified that frame a couple of times with “no promises, but I’ll see what I can do.† And then of course I started shifting my attention to Karen, who had seen Lara clearly into me and me responding, etc.  After I had made out with her, Karen said the punch line that is the reason why I wrote this article in the first place:
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“I love you because you’re such a whore.â€
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I don’t know if it was just because I’d gone from heavy touching with Lara to making out with her â€" without embarrassment â€" or because I’d hooked up with her friends (and been discreet enough never to mention it to her... she found out from them, not me), or just because I was conveying that attitude, but it was interesting because Karen changed at that moment.
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