Do you worry that you're not hot enough to get that guy that you dream about? Is he handsome and funny and smart and you worry that you'll never be able to become his girlfriend because you're just not hot enough? Are you never the one to get the guy because there's always someone hotter than you that steals him away from you?
Worrying about if you are thin enough or pretty enough is very common. Even the most beautiful women in the world worry about this. Even women that you think would never have a doubt in their mind about how pretty they are worry over whether they are going to get the guy that they want if he is particularly cute or funny or nice. It's only natural when we find someone that we're really into.
So, can you get the guy you want by trying to be the hottest girl around? Can you attract him and keep him if you are the most beautiful woman that is vying for his attention? If you are slim enough and pretty enough you can get the guy you want, right? All you have to do is focus on your looks and he will fall in love with you and his heart will be yours forever.
When you think these thoughts or speak them aloud they sound a little crazy, don't they? When you think about it logically you probably see the flaw in these thoughts. You will never get the guy of your dreams by trying to be the hottest or the prettiest girl around. Why? Because there will always be a woman out there that is prettier than you. Even if you do get the guy you are hoping for by being hot or pretty, is that what you want to be valued for? If this is the basis of your relationship then he will leave you as soon as a prettier girl walks by. He will forget about you as soon as they hire someone younger or prettier than you. That's no way to live and that should never be your goal because it doesn't work.
But maybe you can get the guy of your dreams by playing him. Maybe you can win him over and make him fall in love with you by manipulating his manly mind. Women have been doing it for years, right? All you have to do is seduce him and win his heart and he will become addicted to you thanks to your womanly ways and your clever trap.
Of course, there are a multitude of rules that go along with being manipulative to get the guy that you're dreaming of to fall in love with you. You can't call him or text him first. You can't tell him how you really feel about him. You can't be too nice to him and, if possible, you should use another guy to make him jealous of you. This is how it works, right? This is how you manipulate a man to get him to fall in love with you, right?
But wouldn't it be great if you didn't have to deal with rules? With all of these rules you aren't really being yourself anyhow, are you? There is also a very good chance that you'll make a mistake and break down and call him or text him when things are going good. You might even lose out on the guy of your dreams by not calling him or texting him when some other girl is doing the exact opposite.
The truth is that none of these methods work to get the guy of your dreams to fall in love with you. No matter what anyone says, a man falls in love with a woman because of how she makes him feel. Sure, if you're pretty he will feel great having you close to him and physical attraction does count for something but it's not everything. It is how you make him feel by how you treat him and how you talk to him that is most important to a man and, no doubt, the man of your dreams.
If you really do want get the guy of your dreams to fall in love with you then you need to understand how to make him feel smart and strong and handsome himself. You need to know how to flirt with him in a way that is fun for both of you. You need to understand that you don't have to play games to get the guy of your dreams. You just need to know how to get the guy that you are thinking of to feel good about himself and he will open his heart to you and be devoted to you forever.
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