Can you get the guy of your dreams to fall for you by flirting with him and being the prettiest girl that he knows? Should you focus on how you look and try to attract him by being as pretty as is humanly possible? After all, guys are visually stimulated naturally and it should make sense to you that if you're the prettiest girl around that the man you are interested in will want you over any other girl.
It is a natural fact that guys are visually stimulated. The first thing that attracts a man to a woman is how she looks. There are many different features that a man finds attractive in a woman and most of them are connected to his instincts. Features such as a healthy complexion, healthy looking hair, bright eyes and red lips all send a signal to his brain that say that you will be a good mother and a good mate. Of course, he doesn't think these thoughts. Men are hard wired to feel these feelings and be attracted to women with these features.
Trying to replicate as many of these features as possible is a good way to get a guy's attention. This is why we have a cosmetics industry and why personal hygiene is pretty important when you are trying to get a guy to notice you. Of course, men are not completely shallow and being pretty is only going to get you so far. Men require more than a pretty face and a shapely figure to feel lasting love. If you're hoping to build a relationship and get a boyfriend you need to go beyond appealing to his eyes and you need to appeal to his mind and his psyche, as well.
You see, a man wants the same things out of a relationship that a woman does. Even though the exact triggers that cause a man to fall in love and become devoted to one woman are a little different, we all want to feel special to that one person. But how do you make him feel special? What is he looking for in a girlfriend? What can you do to ensure that your relationship isn't just a flash in the pan?
A man wants to feel wanted. He wants to feel handsome and intelligent and strong. Just like you want him to tell you that you are pretty and smart and feel like you are the only girl that he thinks about, he wants to feel that you are interested in him because of the man that he is. He wants to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are into him because he is intelligent, a hard worker, handsome and special to you in a way that no other man can replicate.
While you might think that this is going to be easy, it's a little more difficult than simply telling him that you think that he's handsome and strong and smart. He needs to believe it. You also have to believe it yourself. Spend some time getting to know him and show real interest in him as a person the same way that you would if you were getting to know someone as a friend. Find out what interests him and what accomplishments he is proud of and encourage him by showing him that you understand him and admire these traits in him. While being pretty will get your foot in the door, understanding how to make him believe that he is everything that he dreams of already is the way to win his heart and make him devoted to you and you alone forever.
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