Deciding to adopt a child is a big deal and the process can take years to complete so it is important to make sure that you are ready to do it. All the same, for those who aren't able to have their own kids (the reason why does not matter) adoption is very well worth the effort. Aside from giving you the opportunity to start your own family, it's also a gift to the child who might otherwise not have a real home.
While the typical course of action is to adopt through an adoption agency, there are other ways to do it. You can also decide to adopt independently but that requires a lot more research and work from you. First of all, you have to learn the relevant laws in your state or location. If you aren't already familiar with your future adopted child, you are going to have to track down a birth mother who will be willing to put her child up for adoption. In most adoptive cases, the adoptive parents pay for the medical costs of the birth mother as well as most other costs that she racks up. It is typically a good idea to talk with a lawyer to make sure each step of the process is legal and that you are working with a birth mother who is honest.
How easy or difficult it is for you to adopt a child depends on who you are, the requirements and regulations in your local area and the place from which you want to adopt your future child. There are lots of things that can make your adoption process harder. Married couples usually have an easier time and single parents (male or female) generally have a harder time with adoption.
It's easier for gay couples to adopt kids now but it can still sometimes be an obstacle. Those who suffer from serious health problems will have a harder time adopting a child.
The vast majority of the children in need of homes are considered "special needs" children. This is an incredibly broad term and it can mean lots of different things.
Most commonly, it is assigned to kids who have health problems or disabilities (physical, emotional or mental). Sometimes though it is assigned to other factors like a child's age or race. Above a certain age, for example, a child may be given this label because it's harder for older children to find families who want to adopt them. Some agencies will even label a child as "special needs" because he or she comes from a minority ethnic background as it is harder to find parents who want to adopt children from these races. Boys are sometimes labeled as "special needs" because there are a lot more boys who need to be adopted.
Adopting a child is a process that varies wildly from location to location and depends on things like which country you would like to adopt your child from. Still it isn't a decision that can be entered into lightly because it involves lots of commitment both in terms of your time and your money. More than anything else, you need to be ready to add a new member to your family.