Have you found a guy that you're really interested in but you're not sure if you are pretty enough to get his attention? He is everything that you've ever looked for in a guy. He's clever and witty and as pretty as a guy can be. But you're worried that you're not his type because he is so handsome. You worry that he won't think that you're pretty enough and that you'll just get your heart broken.
I hate to tell you this but every woman out there feels the same way that you do. No matter how pretty a girl is, she still looks at other women and thinks that they're prettier than she is. We all have this insecurity that we simple aren't as attractive as the competition and we all fear losing a man to a girl that is prettier than we are. Even models worry about their looks and it is natural to feel insecure about our looks since we have grown accustomed to our face from looking at it in the mirror every day for our entire life. But still we wish to be the prettiest girl around when we find someone that we're interested in.
Can good looks help you to attract the attention of that special someone that you have your eye on? If you try really hard, can you make a man fall for you and keep him interested merely on looks alone? It might seem that the prettiest girls have their pick of guys so maybe if you concentrate on always looking your best then you can beat out the competition and the man of your dreams will pick you.
Now that you've actually thought about it almost out loud, it does sound a little shallow and crazy, doesn't it? You don't want a man to love you just because of how you look. You want him to see who you are on the inside and you want to be appreciated for your other fine qualities. After all, there is always going to be someone out there that's just a little bit prettier than you are. If he values you for your beauty then he will leave you as soon as another more attractive girl comes along and you'll be crushed. Relying upon your physical beauty alone isn't going to get you the man of your dreams.
There is always manipulation and trickery to get your guy to fall for you. You can toy with his heart and mess with his mind until he falls in love with you. You can employ all of your womanly powers to make him miss you when you're gone and make him call you by avoiding his phone calls. You can make him so twisted up inside that he'll be like a dog chasing his tail to spend time with you. Maybe playing him like fiddle will make him fall for you.
The first thing that you need to do is learn all the rules that go along with playing a guy. In order to manipulate him and make him fall for you there are rules, after all. There are rules that apply to phone calls, texting, the frequency that you see him, how long you spend talking with him and, of course, there are things that you should say to him as well as things that you can't say to him so he won't know that you're really interested in him. There's a lot to learn but if you're going to go this route you need to know how to play him right.
What if you could just be yourself though? What if you could make mistakes but not worry about it because he will know that you're human and he'll appreciate just spending time with you. Playing games is kind of a risky way to try to make a guy interested in you anyhow. There's always the chance that the things that you're supposed to do can backfire and make him think that you're not really interested in him anyhow. In addition, once you're spending a lot of time together it's difficult to transition from being a player into being yourself, wouldn't you think?
In spite of what people say, the only thing that is going to make a guy fall in love with you that is worth concentrating on is being yourself. Men fall in love with women because of how that particular woman makes him feel inside about himself. If she's pretty, he might feel good for a period of time because he's spending time with someone that he finds physically attractive but soon the novelty wears off and there needs to be more depth to the relationship. A man falls in love with a woman that is truly interested in him and wants to know him. The friendship part of the relationship is more important to him than any other aspect of the relationship.
If he is going to fall in love with you in a way that will last then it will be because you make him feel handsome and clever and funny and strong. Beauty is fleeting and games often come back to bite you pretty hard when you're pursuing someone that you're really interested in. Knowing how to draw him close to you and make him your best friend is the only way to cement the bond of a lasting, loving relationship with the man of your dreams and make him fall in love with you forever.
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