Can being pretty or prettier than some other girl give you an edge when it comes to getting a boyfriend? Does the way that you look actually help you when you've found some special guy that you are interested in? Should you even focus on your looks or will you only be attracting the wrong type of attention from a guy? Even though everybody is attracted to someone because of how they look initially, is it even worth your time to try to look your best or to try looking pretty to get a guy's attention?
Guys, by nature, are attracted visually before any other sense in their body. A guy will judge a woman by how she looks so there is something to be said for trying to look your best when you find someone that you are hoping to date. This is just a part of a male's instinct and without even thinking about it a guy will look for full red lips, a healthy skin tone and bright sparkly eyes and other features when he looks at a woman. These features tell the instinctual side of his brain that a woman will be a good mate and a good partner to raise a family with. It is just a part of their genetic makeup.
By trying to look pretty and hit on as many of these instinctual triggers as possible you can and will get his attention. Cosmetics and some good personal hygiene can help you accentuate what you might already have and send that signal to his brain that says that you're not damaged or that you might be a good partner for him. While being pretty isn't the only thing that a guy looks for in a woman, it's the first thing that he's going to notice before your clever whit and your ability to do long division in your head. If you really want him to fall for you and make him your boyfriend you will need to build a connection that can lead to romance, passion and desire.
Men really do want many of the same things that women want in a relationship. The outcome is very similar but what a guy needs is just slightly different from what you might need in order to feel love and devotion for one person. You understand what you want to feel that special warm and fuzzy feeling inside but what does he need in order to feel those same emotions for you? What can you say or do to take things from a casual acquaintance to something more meaningful for both of you? How can you go from casual chatting to having him wanting to spend time with you and make you his girlfriend?
Where you might want to feel pretty, a man wants to feel handsome. While you might want to feel like he views you as being smart, he wants you to think of him as strong or hard working. He needs to know that you're interested in him as a human being. He needs to know that you want to be with him not for what he can provide for you but because you think that he is special and unique and unlike any other man on the planet. He needs to feel secure that you are really into him and not for what he can give you.
Even though all of this sounds very simple, there's a big difference between telling him these words and making him feel that you think of him in the way that he wants you to. I'm not talking about that fake, phoney facade that we all put on when we first start dating someone. That often doesn't last long. You need to make him feel secure that you are actually interested in him. You want to be his best friend as well as his girlfriend. This means that you need to know how to focus on him and understand what makes him tick if you are truly interested in being his girlfriend and making him your boyfriend. Do this and you will have a man that is not only your boyfriend but devoted to you in a way that you probably have never experienced before.
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