Are you suffering from a broken heart? Have you been experiencing sleepless nights thinking of your recent break up? Men are not experts in expressing their feelings and it’s probably only over beer bottles you have been dealing with your pain. Well, no one can blame you. People have their own ways of facing their problems, however, you can’t go on and on sulking forever.
If the parting was your fault, getting over the hurt may be doubly hard. Aside from the loneliness that separation can bring, guilt can also cause you immeasurable grief. Knowing that you did something wrong which caused the love of your life go away is something very hard to come to terms with.
If all you can think of is reconcile with your ex, then it’s probably good for you to device a plan on how to do it. Here are 5 steps you should take in trying to win your ex girlfriend back:
1. Accept the Break up — Whether you like it or not, your relationship has ended. You have to first accept this fact. If you keep on denying this truth to yourself, you will never be able to move on and recover from the pain of a broken heart. Everything that happens in life has a reason and many things are just beyond your control. Accept
what happened and move on.
2. Learn From the Break up What could have gone wrong? Why did you have to put an end to a happy relationship? Whether it was your fault or hers, try to see things objectively and learn from what happened. If you were negligent of your duties as a boyfriend and you failed to put your partner on top priority, then you should know
what to do next time.
3. Start Afresh – After accepting the reality of the situation and learning from it, start anew. Stop getting drunk one night after another. Have a long refreshing shower and shave. Put on nice clothes and go out. Meet some friends. Chat with them. Tell them about the breakup and how you feel about it. Tell them how you want to win your ex girlfriend back. They may be able to give you some thoughts on it that may
help you.
4. Reconcile With Your Ex— If the only thing that makes sense to you is to reconcile with your ex, then do so, or at least try. Give her a call and ask if she’s willing to meet with you and talk. Although a phone conversation is ok, you would want to show her that you are serious in wanting to give her and you another chance. Thus, meeting in person is best.
5. Be a Better You – When you meet, tell her about how you felt and the things that you thought of during the time you were separated. Share your realizations with her and express how much willing you are to try it one more time. Show her that you are a better you and that you are willing to continue being so to keep a happy relationship.
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