So it has been countless days and nights that you have been itching to call your ex boyfriend, hoping he could give you back your sanity. Not having him around is so sad and so bad that you can’t seem to find a way to live life normally. It may be very tempting to come running to his door and beg him to come back and spare you the agony, but another part of you says that’s not the right thing to do.
Getting back your ex boyfriend is definitely not as easy as it sounds. It may be difficult for some reasons. It may be because you believe that you did nothing wrong which contributed to the failing of your relationship. However, it may also be equally difficult if you are guilty of some wrong things that led to the break up. Either way, it is wise to get over some pride and guilt and ponder on whether you really want to have him back in your life. If after thinking about it for some time, you realize that you really want him back in your life, then here are the steps you should take to succeed:
•First, you have to tell your ex that you have already accepted what happened between you two. If you are not comfortable talking to him yet, find other ways in letting him know, like not bugging him with your text messages or calls. You may also do this by showing your common friends that you are doing just fine. The news will surely get to him and this will give him some idea of how you are doing. This may also bring him some peace of mind.
•Secondly, do something for yourself. Beautify yourself. No, this doesn’t mean you have to be vain. Just do something to make yourself feel good. This will help you get back in track and inspire you to start anew. Don’t rush on things. Make sure that before you meet with your ex, you are already mentally, emotionally, and even physically prepared. You also have to make sure that getting back together is what you really want.
•Once you are ready to meet with your ex, give him a call. If you want to make sure that he will not say no, you may ask for an “appointment” by sending him some flowers with a note on it. Don’t be elaborate. Just tell him you would appreciate if he’d be willing to meet and have a conversation whenever he is available.
•When you are already sitting face to face with him, ask him how he’s been. Tell him the reason why you wanted to talk. Be honest. Express your feelings clearly. Try not to sound pitiful neither demanding. Tell him that you simply want to tell him how you feel and that you will respect whatever he thinks about it. Once he sees that you genuinely wants him back and that you are willing to work harder to make your relationship last, he surely would not think twice in giving you another chance.
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