It is possible to stop divorce. It can be stopped by not signing any of the paperwork or notarizing the final papers. What you are asking is "do you want to stop it?" And "can the future be different?"
You could very well have a few genuine reasons for stopping the divorce. The first thing to look at is your general state of wellbeing. You are half the marriage and so half the problems come from you. How do you really feel inside knowing that the person that you love and care so deeply about does not want to be together any longer? Does it hurt you that your partner could leave you when you still love them so much. It might hurt even more if you have got to this stage and not even tried marriage counseling. You also need to consider if you have really tried to understand what your spouse needs and to try and give them that.
TIPS TO STOP A DIVORCE
With that said, it is important to be agreeable with your spouse during this difficult time. In fact any outbursts will have the effect of making things much worse. While you are at this stage, try to look at things from your other half's point of view. Put yourself in their shoes and determine if what they are feeling would bother you if you were in that place. If they happen to say things that feel mean spirited, instead of responding back with anger, rise above the negativity. You could say something in a neutral tone such as, "I am sorry that you feel that way." Don't get angry about what they say or do, everyone is hurting and it isn't necessarily their true feelings.
Consider the problems that you know you have. It is a good idea to write these complaints down to make sure you really consider them. Take plenty of time to ponder the list of complaints and see if they are accurate. If you want to at this stage you could see a marriage counselor by yourself to chat to someone about it. After you have done this, then you can talk about what you consider to be genuine complaints with your other half. This is about admitting past mistakes and showing action towards making a better future.
When you look at it like this you might also find your own areas of concern. Make sure when you talk about your concerns that you aren't blaming anyone but are just talking about worries. This stage is vital and you need to really share your honest feelings here to make it work. Talking about your concerns like this and possible changes in the future to make things better can let you both see if there is still any life left in your marriage.
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