Being left by your husband can be devastating. The loss and pain of being rejected by the person who promised to love you forever can land a huge blow to your ego and self-esteem. You feel that if you could just get him back that you would feel whole again. But, will he ever come back? How long will it take to win him over? Should you move on and forget about him and try to find someone else?
First, the heart feels what it feels. I'm sure that the thought of moving on and finding someone else while you're still in love with your husband simply isn't appealing to you. What's the sense in trying to love someone else when your heart belongs to your husband. What if your husband comes back after you start dating someone new? You don't want to hurt someone else in the same way that you've been hurt. But what if he is with someone else and everyone is telling you that it really is over.
The fact is that it's never really over. Even if your husband is with another woman right now it is possible to win him back over. As a matter of fact, most relationships like this usually wind up ending after a very short while. If left to themselves, once the novelty of sneaking around is gone for your husband and the thrill of stealing a married man from his wife wears off for the two of them, they are left without much of a relationship and they usually wind up breaking up all on their own.
If you want your husband to come back to you it's going to take time, understanding, patience and self-confidence. Worrying about whether he'll come back and trying to do all the things that you think will win him over will only cause him to feel repulsion for you, sorry to say.
Look at it this way. Do you remember when you used to date? Do you remember the guys that were overly nice to you and who tried so hard to get your attention? Those were the guys that you didn't want anything to do with? Then on the other hand, the guys who were cool and happy and who didn't try to get your attention were the ones that you found the most attractive. By trying too hard to win your husband over and make him come back to you, you're being like one of those guys that you found so unattractive.
If it's your intention of winning your husband back you need to make him attracted to you. He has to want to spend time with you because you're funny, fun to be with and you are living the life that any man would want to be a part of. You know him better than anyone else and you have this on your side also. You have a history and memories that you can play off of also. Use all of these to your advantage and you will start to find some success with winning your husband back.
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