Are you still in love with your ex and you want to get them back? Are you hoping that you will get back together but you're unsure of what to do? You feel like no matter what you say or do, things get all twisted around and your ex has this wonderful ability to take everything that you do and use it against you. Are you growing tired of this sort of treatment but you're afraid to get angry or upset with your ex?
While it's nice that you're so understanding and patient and kind, there comes a time when you need to stand up for yourself. There's a time when you are justified in getting upset and standing up for yourself. Don't you think that it's time that you grew a spine and put a stop to your ex's ridiculous accusations and biting sarcasm?
It might be that you did do something wrong that led to your breakup but for how long will you have to deal with the nasty comments? If you are starting to feel some anger or resentment then this is a good sign that you're starting to get your self-esteem back. When you stop allowing people to treat you poorly, this is a sign that you value yourself and your feelings. I'm sure that for a while you felt horrible about yourself but there comes a time when you forgive yourself and know that you have changed. Is it unreasonable that your ex should forgive you or at least not be mean to you after your breakup?
While getting angry and lashing out at your ex might feel good for a moment, it probably isn't going to help you to get your ex back. Asking your ex to stop being mean to you is fine but yelling at them or being nasty to them even if they're not being nice to you just isn't going to help. Standing up for yourself a little bit will show your ex that you have some pride and respect for yourself and it may get you an apology at a later date but yelling is only going to make your ex feel justified in never talking to you again.
The best thing that you can do at this point is to realize that you are healing and you are getting your self-esteem back. This is a good sign. Distance yourself from people that treat you poorly and that means your ex also if they are not being kind to you. Having an abrupt tone with your ex or being overly formal is a good way to send a message to your ex. Avoiding your ex is also a good way to show that you are changing and that you have no desire to be with someone that is going to hurt you or treat you with disrespect. This one simple step that you might think would push your ex away might actually make your ex sit up and take notice that you are strong again and getting back to being the person that they fell in love with in the first place.
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