So you messed up. Your girlfriend broke up with you and you wish that you had done things differently. As time progresses you're going to have a lot of regrets unless you listen up and understand a little something about relationship dynamics and start to show some restraint when it comes to how you deal with your ex. That is, if it's your desire to get back together with her then it's time to make a few changes.
While you might be focusing only on what you did wrong in the relationship, the fact is that what you do from here on out is what is going to make the biggest difference in your success when it comes to winning her back. I'm sure that you love her and you want to make things right. As a matter of fact, you might actually love her just a little bit too much at the moment.
It might be tempting to want to overcompensate for your failure in your relationship. Maybe you did something terrible or you were just boring. Maybe she left you because she found someone else or maybe she told you that she just doesn't love you anymore. Either way, it is all in the past and what is important is how you behave starting right now. Overcompensating and trying to be perfect will only make matters worse. Yes, that's right. Being super sweet and kind to her is only going to push her futher away.
Just think about this for a moment. Have you ever dated someone in the past who you really liked in the beginning of the relationship. Then, somewhere along the way the balance of power got a little out of hand. You were equals in the beginning of the relationship and then she suddenly started to like you a little bit more than you liked her, it seemed. Maybe she called you constantly or she became jealous and started asking you where you were or who you were talking to. Even without words, you felt that things were starting to get a little strange.
This sort of feeling or behavior can ruin even a strong relationship if it's not kept in check. After a breakup, this is the number one affection killer and it spells doom for you and your relationship if you're being way too nice to your ex girlfriend. Basically, if you're showering her with attention or if you're the only one initiating communication in the relationship then you're guilty.
Have some respect for yourself. Don't chase after someone that isn't interested in you. Don't try communicating with someone that doesn't return the attention. It might be difficult at first to keep from trying to get her back. You might worry that she will forget about you or that she will think that you have moved on but don't worry. She'll still think of you from time to time and she'll wonder what happened to that attention that you used to heap upon her. It might take a little bit of time but eventually she will become curious.
To kill the time, get started pulling your life back together. Create the kind of life that you dream of and the kind of life that anyone would be happy to be a part of. Get back to being that guy that was self assured and fun to be around.
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