Charisma, defined as the amount of charm you have, or how charismatic you are, is a crucial factor to being liked, approached and being the life of any group. I, personally, has received a lot of success out of using these 5 techniques. So let me share with you, the lost art of being charismatic.
1) Be Enthusiastic
I cannot emphasize the importance of the difference between being ethusiastic and being a hyperactive nut case. There s a thin line there, really thin line nods. When you re enthusiastic, you are immediately perceived as the life of the group, attracting the attention of people and being seen as fun, outgoing and exciting all the attractive qualities that girls look out for in guys.
2) Comfortable In Your Own Skin
It is crucial that you seem comfortable in your own skin. As not seeming comfortable in your own skin would also lead to people seeing you as insecure. Do not look down while walking around, instead, carry your head up high, not to the extent that your nose is up in the air, of course. This includes all other scenarios where your confidence in yourself or security would be tested.
3) Do Not Adopt A Follower s Mentality
People follow for a very simple reason they cannot / do not dare to lead, and from the structure of the world (as of today at least), there are always followers outnumbering leaders a million to one. Why? Because following doesn t require any hard thinking. However, what girls want to see in guys is not so much as leadership, but instead, independence. Leadership is simply a bonus. So the next time you find yourself at the end of the group, make an effort to walk in front, in the scenario that you re leading the pack, don t turn back too often to see if people are following you and don t wait at every junction that requires you to make a decision to turn. Walk with enough confidence and everyone would follow you, trust me, this works brilliantly from my experiences.
4) Be Unconcerned About What Others Think Of You
People all too often are swayed by peer pressure, by worrying too much about what others think of them and thus altering their behaviour to suit society s norms, a reason for the huge number of followers too. Well, to address such an issue, you have to overcome the mental barrier that society is always right and steer away from the comfort of doing something everyone else is doing. When it comes to criticisms, take them in your stride and if they re worth considering, then do, if they re taunts, simply shrug them off and show people you re unconcerned and unaffected by their brainless taunting. In time, people will learn to respect and more importantly, admire, such a strong character.
5) Be An Object Of Their Desire
Basically, this means something along the lines of being perfect, which is what this blog would try to help you achieve. This could be in the form of physique, studies, looks and perhaps even personality. Being an object or their desire would command you an immediate form of respect, as you have achieved something they couldn t achieve, be it whatever form that may be in. So, it s important to strive to be perfect in every sense (yes, this is absolutely possible) so that you would be an object of desire to every person around you. I will discuss all the aspects of perfection in my future entries, from physique to personality to body language and all so do bookmark or subscribe to this site so as to not miss out on my entries.
Thus, in conclusion, these are the few most important aspects of charisma that you must master to improve your charismatic lure. Once you have achieved all these qualities, you will realize that you have emit an aura that makes people want to hang on to every word spoken by you, to want to be led by you and last but not least, to be just like you, an object of their desire, and this, is the ultimate form of being charismatic.
Author Resource:
The author is the owner of the relationship advice blog http://DatingRuleBook.blogspot.com . To Learn more about such dating persuasion techniques, visit http://DatingRuleBook.blogspot.com
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