Even the most enthusiastic young mom can begin to tire of constantly changing diapers. Even the mother who does everything by the book can become frustrated when a stubborn little boy or girl resists to being properly potty trained.
So what is just such a mom like you to do in the face of a resistant child? Well, potty training kids isn't easy for anyone, and what works for one parent might not be as effective for another. But allow me to share a few tips with you.
First of all, try to let go of the frustration as much as you can. Your child can sense your apparent anger, and this causes stress for them and can even increase their degree of resistance.
Some child experts believe that tension during this stage can actually permanently damage your relationship with your child! So, when your child is stubborn, remind yourself that this is not the worst thing that can happen to you. Take a deep breath. Let it go.
Try to get your child excited about potty training. After all, this will help them be a big boy or big girl, thereby allowing them to gain some independence. Let them know that independence from Mommy does not mean Mommy will be any less involved or loving.
Show them big kid underwear in the store. This underwear obviously has prints of characters they are probably already familiar with and love. Try to show them that potty training is a reward in and of itself.
However, you should not compare them to other children who can use the potty. Suggesting that one child--a sibling, a friend, a neighbor, etc.--is superior to them in any way sets up a bad pattern and will create negative feelings in your child. Just don't do it!
Use fun resources to continue to get your child excited about the prospect of potty training. Picture books and DVDs are excellent ways to aid in this process.
Many mothers use sticker charts to visibly document your little one's progress. Every time they successfully potty, add a sticker to the chart. Some moms suggest using two stickers for whichever one they seem to have the most difficulty with. This is an easy way to reward your child that does not portend bad habits--like giving them sweets.
Each time they complete a chart, you ought to give them a larger reward. Let them pick out a toy at the store or make their favorite meal. This is something to celebrate!
Author Resource:
Dr. Potty (http://www.drpotty.com/) understands the challenges of potty training kids . Diapers are sometimes a hassle but they sure are easier than potty training. Art Gib is a freelance writer.Distributed by Content Crooner
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