1) What if she has a boyfriend?
MY COMMENTS:
Say "No thanks" and get a woman that doesn't have a boyfriend. I personally do not think it's worth the hassle, energy, or effort. Plus, I do not like to be the guy that ruins relationships. And I personally don't prefer to date ladies who don't have any integrity (give it some thought). So simply discover a girl that is single... and the chances are high that sometime quickly the one you want might be single... and you will be more enticing because you're dating other women.
***QUESTION***
I have a question. There's this girl that I actually like, and she tells me that she just wants to be buddies, and I used to be just wondering, what can I do to make her change her thoughts?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
It is a nice query, and I get it a lot. I consider this a lot different to the query above, because it's normally something that may be fixed. Here's how: If most of the women that you simply meet are telling you that they need to be "simply friends", then it implies that YOU'RE DOING SOMETHING TO MAKE THEM ALL FEEL THAT WAY. The good news is that when you're doing something to make them feel that means you can start doing something different to make them feel ATTRACTED to you instead.
You are most likely not going to be able to do much for those which are already telling you that they wish to simply "be pals", however here's what to do in the future:
STOP ACTING LIKE A "FRIEND" WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM!
When you act like a "nice, pleasant guy" then a girl is NOT going to feel interested in you. What do I mean by "good" and "pleasant"?
I imply do not give her too many compliments, don't act shy and do not smother her with attention. Don't call her every five minutes. Do not talk with a tentative, weak voice. Do not go far out of yourself to be accommodating too early. Do not inform her that you have feelings for her earlier than you've got gotten intimate with her. DO tease her.
DO act Cocky & Humorous round her. DO end phone conversations and conferences first. DO act a little bit bit too confident. DO converse with energy and confidence.
Are you with me?
In case you're getting a common response from many of the girls you meet, then the widespread denominator is YOU and the way you're acting. So maintain working on it till you get the outcomes you want.
Author Resource:
James Anthony is a Dating and sedution expert. Grab a free copy of his latest eBook "The Comprehensive Guide To Finding Your Perfect Woman: A Man’s Dating Toolbox" at http://www.ultimatedatinghelpformen.com