The other day I came across two of my female co-workers talking One of the women in the agency was telling another she suspected that her new boyfriend was probably married. They were attempting to figure out what signs would give him away as a married man.
Here's what they came up with:
1) He makes excuses not to see you and the excuses do not always make sense. "Nicole," my co-worker, explained her boyfriend said he couldn't see her last Saturday since he was going to El Paso on business. When she saw him on the following Thursday, she asked him how the trip had gone and he seemed confused for a few moments until he remembered his story.
2) There are different places he won't take you. My co-worker mentioned that she suggested they meet for their date at a certain restaurant in town and he adamantly refused, but suggested a different night spot. She stated he became flustered and his refusal to meet at the first place was all out of proportion to what she would have expected.
3) His cellular phone rings and when he looks to see who is calling he says it's no one. "Ellen," the friend, stated this happened to her. The man she was going out with did this many times. It turned out he wasn't married but he was engaged to someone.
4) His residence is "too messy," "too far," "too something" for you to drop by. One of them stated she suggested on a couple of occasions that she make dinner for him at his home and he continually had a reason why it wasn't a good time.
5) Some thing doesn't feel proper. Both women agreed that they could tell something wasn't right. They had suspicions but they weren't positive what to do about it. They concluded speaking to close friends was the very best plan.
I should to make a confession here. As much as I adore and respect women, some things they do drive me nuts. Just one of those things is believing that all troubles may be solved by speaking to friends. Ladies have extensive support systems and that's fantastic, but often you can find genuine measures that can be taken to solve a dilemma. In the event you believe your boyfriend is married or may well be married, find out for certain!
Most of today's problems are self induced. It is true, but we keep on causing our own troubles even when there are positive measures we can take to correct them.
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Please don't lie awake at night worrying and wondering if the man you're going out with is already married. Find out for certain. If he is not married, you'll be able to stop wondering. If he is, well, at least you can get on with your life and find someone who will give you the respect you deserve.
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