The key to make love with your wife so she will adore you and be is effortless, so focus on her.
Exert the time to guarantee that it's an exciting experience for her.
Know when she needs to be cuddled and make sure you use that opportunity very well.
If she wants a caring gift, get her one.
No, not just an exercise, man! Here's a pretty simple tip, if she loves flowers and from experience I know each girl does. Give her flowers! But put some thought into it, find out what flowers she prefers, what shades she likes.
Put an effort in selecting your gift. Get the florist's help if you need. Don't forget to put love and thought into it. Never mind that you feel gay choosing flowers. If you genuinely love your wife then you can get through it.
If she needs flattery, give them to her. And again, give it some effort. Look her deep in the eyes (don't break eye contact) and tell her something you genuinely appreciate about her.
If she needs something to be done for her, do it without she telling to you. Weed her garden when she's not expecting it. She'll surely feel special.
Make time to connect with her.
Different women have slightly different needs (although they have many similarities), so know about your wife's specific tastes.
And that's the secret to a happy marriage: pay attention, man!
Finally, please stay away from any of the below intimacy smashers.
1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by talking about things like, "Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!"
2) Get all defensive when she says concerns you don't agree with. Just stay present with her and try to understand her perception.
3) Be impertinent with her, by rolling your eyes when she's in disagreement with you. Avoid insulting, and stuff like that.
4) Block her out, particularly when the situation is not yet clear. If there's anything that can push her away the most, then this will be it. Even when you feel that you can no longer tackle the situation, you should try real hard to be with her.
Otherwise, you'll alienate your wife, and she might end up finding that connection with some other guy. I hate saying that when she really wanted it with you.
The idea of a cheating wife repulses me and really makes my blood boil. It's something that disgusts me on a personal level and also on a moral level. But this article is not for the women.
If I were speaking to wives, my advice would be different, but I'm speaking to you, a fellow husband and you only have power over your own self. So take charge of your marriage. Your wife will undeniably follow you and you might decide she's not the right partner for you.
Nevertheless, if you apply the advice I've given you here, you'll definitely find yourself in a happy marriage and not busied learning how to discover your wife being unfaithful, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs.
Author Resource:
Jemal Jelil has been married for over a decade, and has gone from miserably married to verily happily married. Find out his secret to a happy marriage when you sign up for his "Magnetism Method" course while it's still available at http://www.happy-marriage-for-men.com .
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