PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
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Discussion a number of issues is going the extra mile in your marriage and will be greatly appreciated by your spouse. "They lived happily ever after", this is the common ending of fairy tales and subconsciously in the minds of all those who plunged into the tender trap of marriage.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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If your spouse forgot how important cuddling is or forgot how red roses or a box of chocolates on holiday, this could be a sign that your marriage is going down hill. Think of healthy need that you want to accomplish that your spouse can easily fulfill. According to some marriage counselors, many couples talk to each other but they do not really communicate with each other. Does your spouse constant mood swings? Does your spouse get emotional by suddenly snapping at you or criticizing you unfairly? Give your spouse the benefit of the doubt when they have mood swings because there could be a deeper issue at hand. Be creative, make your bedroom a place of a thousand delights and you are the genie who came out from the lamp. If your spouse has stopped not communicate with you then then is a sign that your marriage is on the rocks. If your spouse never has anything to talk about or doesn't like talking to you anymore then read the newspaper or watch television to become a distraction.
WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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The first 3 reactions are negative and not remedial measures. When you are enrage, you become off balance, and could soon recover your balance. A possible reaction to a marital crisis could be that you tried to control your spouse or talk your spouse into not leaving you. Is your marriage worth the effort of learning new ways to reconnect with your partner? If there will be no action now, how much regret will you feel be over the loss of a spouse? How much pain are you enduring because of your spouse's departure? How committed are you in keeping your marriage? Marriage counselors are available to offer good advices but they will charge as much as 80 to 120 per session.
WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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Myth 4. Pessimism is the feeling that there is no solution available and even marriage counselors cannot help. You will rely on time because it is a great healer. What are some damaging myths about saving a marriage?
Myth 1.
HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Tell him to give you space and enough time to think things out. It is better to have a third party as your spiritual adviser such an reliable friend who can act as a referee. Here are some helpful pieces of advice.
WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Marriage can be a blissful union when the couple respect and love each other. Look for resources which can help you. This is the common complaint of many wives. Be a dependable spouse, keep your promises otherwise she/he will lose trust. Then remember what made you fall in love with each other. Learn to forgive. Jealousy, the green-eyed monster, is like a harmful pest in marriage and a sure way of driving your spouse away.
HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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When marriage is at the brink of disaster it is not the right time learn more communications skills, you new knowledge will only offer you the ability to use better words to fight more often. Devote time each day for your spouse and let him know that he is in your thoughts all the time. Many couples get so comfortable with each other that they stop dressing up. By going on a date, there is no alternative than to dress up to show your spouse how attractive you still are. You love your kids, you take care of them properly. You will rely on time because it is a great healer. You should improve your communications skills to keep your marriage.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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The quality of a marriage does not end on avoiding disagreement. Do you want to be part of the statistics? It is never too late to change and decide to turn over a new leaf. You just have to take the first step.
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