Do you want to work on your marriage and recover it? If the answer is YES, then I can probably help you. I won't tell you what to do, should not have to hear that from me. Don't let a complete stranger ever tell you what to do.
Being married for approximately twenty years and not aware how to change the catastrophe I was going through in my marriage was difficult for me. I understood I had to do something because I wanted to make this work. I had to rescue this marriage. How did I do it? I made the choice to take action. Searching and reading everything that I thought may perhaps help me. I will show you what I found most usefull in a while, but firstly I would like to enlighten you what I have learned that changed the way she looks at me now.
WHAT'S GOING ON?
It sounds apparent, nevertheless I first had to realise what was going on. Something was wrong, I understood that. But what was it that made it so challenging for me to change. The more I searched for the answers the more I became conscious that I needed to look much closer. I opened my eyes and looked at the girl in the mirror. There I was staring back at me.
WHEN YOU ARE WRONG
It takes a big guy to confess to be wrong and say sorry. Now and then it is even a bit shameful isn't? You will find it easier after a while, I certainly did. But we know better, right? We know we should keep ourselves out off situations we must to apologize for. No more arguing about the laundry, put the garbage out without her asking you once more. Take responsibility and make certain we stay in the safety zone. No more excuses for having to say sorry.
ENJOY FLEXIBILITY
Always things to do. We need to work together. It get's more interesting when you require to stop everything you were doing and help her out. I learned to give more and more and therefore became more flexible. It turned out fantastic. Because every time I ask her to do something for me, she wants to help me to.
HABITS
The major problem for me was to fight my lifestyle. I learned to like healthier meals, train more and rise my energy level in just a couple months. I grew to becomte a different woman. At least that is what he told me, and I just love it when she is right! There are more habits for me to work on and I have made a list. Ready for him to be even more right than ever.
How you can do it? Now you know a little bit about me and what I picked up along the way to help me. Do yourself a favour and do something. It doesn't even matter what you begin with, it is just important that you do it.
What I know is what did it for me. And I only used one solution out there. I suggest it to you because it gave me the right thoughts for saving my relationship.