Do you need to work on your marriage and rescue it? When you do, then I can probably help you. I should not tell you what to do, you don't need to hear that from me.
I have been married for almost 10 years and not aware how to change the misfortune I was dealing with in my relationship was tricky for me. I understood I had to organize something because I wanted to make this work. I had to recover this relationship. How did I do it? I made the decision to act. Searching and reading everything that I thought may perhaps help me. I will show you what I found most usefull later on, but firstly I would like to enlighten you what I have learned that changed the way she looks at me now.
IS IT OBVIOUS?
It sounds obvious, although I first had to realise what was going on. Something was wrong, I knew that. But what was it that made it so hard for me to adjust. The more I searched for the answers the more I got aware that I needed to look much closer. I opened my eyes and looked at the man in the mirror. There I was looking back at me.
TIRED OF EXCUSES
It takes a great guy to admit to be wrong and say sorry. Sometimes it is even a bit shameful isn't? You will find it simpler after a while, I certainly did. But we know better, right? We know we should keep ourselves out off situations we must to say sorry for. No more arguing about the laundry, put the garbage out without her asking you once more. Take responsibility and make sure you stay in the safety zone. No more reasons for having to say sorry.
SCHEDULE WHAT YOU NEED TO DO
Always things to do. We need to work together. It get's more interesting when you have to to drop everything you have been doing and help her out. I have learned to give more and more and so became more flexible. It turned out fantastic. Because every time I ask her to do something for me, he wants to help me to.
WHAT YOU ARE USED TO
The biggest problem for me was to fight my behavior. I learned to enjoy healthier foods, exercise more and grow my energy level in just a couple weeks. I grew to becomte a different man. At least that is what he told me, and I just love it when he is right! There are more habits for me to work on and I have finished a list. Ready for him to be even more right than ever.
How you can do it? Now you know a little bit about me and what I picked up along the way to help me. Do yourself a favour and do something. It does not even matter what you begin with, it is just important that you do it.
What I know is what worked for me. And I only used one solution out there. I recommend it to you since it gave me the right thoughts for saving my marriage.