The relationship between two persons is a delicate bond. A bond that requires building up and maintenance for the relationship to grow and be strong. The depressing fact is that breaking up is really a reality and can often be frustrating, stressful plus nerve wracking. After a break up it is perfectly natural for you to wish to get back with your ex. On the other hand, you need to ask if that is in truth the smartest thing to do. The art of getting back with your ex will result in getting back together with your ex. By making use of the following five suggestions, your ex may recognize the value of you more, and want to reunite together with you.
1) Stay tough. The last thing you want to do is beg. Pretending in need and clingy shows a hopeless desperation, and is more of a put off than anything. Furthermore, by being weak you will be giving more power to your ex, which tends to make things worse. Instead, give your ex the notion that you do fine without them by staying strong. Perchance your ex will realize you have nothing to do with him and moved on, but they were not as able to split as they first thought.
2) Cease communication. What? You could be wondering how not talking to each other might ever enable you to get your ex back. It seems so counterintuitive. However in the future, it may be a smart move. It gives both parties a possible opportunity to cool down and reassess what went wrong. Additionally, it gives your ex longer time to miss you. The old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is real in this instance and can lead to being all together once more.
3) Mobilityand Flexibilty is vital. Stay away from ultimatums and demands. Instead of arguing, try sympathizing and listening. Go with the flow and be flexible. Your ex might be happy to see that you are willing to find the middle ground and be reasonable. This alone may be sufficient to get them contemplating being a couple for a second time. And also, it exhibits them that you do not always have to argue. (Now, how did I know you have argued in the past?)
4) Go out! Look, you broke up...everybody gets that. However that does not mean you have to wallow in self-pity then isolate yourself from your friends and with a good time. Go out. Be alive a little. Have fun. Be with friends. You don't need to start dating to prove a point, just have a good time. Not only will doing this be healing, it will even make you look better in the eyes of your ex.
5) Be yourself. That's all. Just be who you are. Chances are your ex was originally attracted to some element, or elements of who you actually are. Be positive in being whoever you are. Nobody likes a fraud, plus your ex, in time, may perhaps respond to the exact same things they found so appealing after they first met you. Mending those broken bonds are a sure way to get your ex back for good.
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