Living with someone is a difficult adjustment for anyone, that is why in any marriage, the honeymoon is called just that because the first one hundred days of married life if filled with euphoria and giddiness and all sorts of happiness. Then after those first one hundred days, reality takes the bite out of the honeymoon, and this is when the fun begins.
Before you start saying things like saving your marriage, think first: are you thinking straight?
First of all, anyone can feel emotional upheavals at any time of life, and if this happens during the marriage then it will happen, but simply because it does is not a signal that the marriage is already crumbling. Make sure that when you are thinking of saving your marriage that you are not over reacting to anything.
Have you ever thought that because you are miserable your partner is not affected? When you feel down, a loving partner will also feel down, they feel inadequate in not being able to successfully take you off of that downside, that they could not bring you to the level of happiness which they feel they had successfully done in the past. Remember that misery can only beget misery and if everyone is miserable, then definitely the relationship will suffer, not the marriage. There is a big difference between these two and they should never be confused.
The relationship that was established led to marriage. Marriage is the promise and commitment given to each other that through thick or thin, money or no money, through miseries and heartaches, the two should stick it out together and work as a team. And remember the old cliché, there is no “I” in team, there is only a “T” which means together you should stand.
Work out your head first, and when you get over the emotional slump that everyone can experience, married or not, then you will probably see that you were fixing what was not broken. That it was just a phase. Think it over first, and get things settled in your head before leaping off the emotional bridge and making a mistake.
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