At any one point in time in America there are millions of couples whose marriages are hanging by a thread. Not counting those who, for reasons for continued infidelity or physical abuse, actually want it to happen there are many if not most who would do anything to prevent losing their mate. This is not a veiled reference to those people - primarily women who feel that they need a ‘date’ on holidays; or men who need someone to care for their lives (cooking, cleaning). What we are talking about here are the majority of loving couples who find their marriage falling apart - like sifting sand through their fingers. These are the real silent majority and they are on a collision course with disaster. It also includes those who have separated and are truly trying to get your ex back.
So, what are the typical or most prevalent causes of divorce - at least in America? Not unlike other, gender-related issues, this subject must be delineated by gender. The genders often see things differently and this is definitely true for this subject. So, let us begin with men initially because their issues are the easier to deal with.
Men typically distance themselves, at least initially, in both a physical sense - not around as much - and a psychological sense - disconnected psychologically, for reason that are remarkably similar. Men slide away when they feel confined and bossed around. This excessive detailed involvement - ESPECIALLY WHEN IT IS DELIVERED AS INSTRUCTIONS, ORDER, OR WHINING REMINDERS - is simply a relationship killer from a man’s point of view. That does not mean that the reason for the nagging is unjustified. Quite the contrary. Divorce relationship consultants and therapists are quick to acknowledge that men in these situations almost always admit to being guilty of the need for some kind of direction in these regards. The issue, then, is how best for women to achieve it.
Women reflect an even greater instance of similarity with regard to their reasoning - whether consciously or not - for drifting. That key element is emotional support. Women lose love and/or drift when their emotional needs are not met. That does not mean that they cheat - though some do - they just drift apart. It means that the felt lack of emotional support is, itself so hurtful as to often destroy their love for their mate.
If you are attempting to get ex back or are planning on a strategy to win your ex back this perspective may be key to understanding how.
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Author Resource:-> James Roberts is Senior Article Editor for What-Why-How researching and writing on numerous topics including how to get ex back and real solutions for how to get your ex back that work fast!
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