Almost everyone knows someone whose relationship was damaged by one of the parties straying and engaging in infidelity. Similarly, we all know situations where the parties patched it up or were unable to. The aspect we are dealing with here is solely the question of whether or not a relationship damaged by a full-fledged love affair can survive. This is the subject of many deeply ranging discourses regarding the weaker side of human relationships. Basically the answer is Yes you can save such a relationship but it is difficult and usually takes outside help.
Let is examine first by men and women stray in the first place. As has been restated repeatedly in these WWH Relationship Series Articles, Men and Women stray, statistically, for strikingly different reasons. Men usually as not will stray when they feel cramped or nagged. This feeling of being over-managed leads men to get back their manhood though an adulterous affair. Women, on the other hand, stray for emotional support. Women find it easier to forgive their mate if the infidelity was not based in love - rather simply a physical thing. Men, on the other hand, find it truly difficult to forgive a mate no matter the reason.
What happens, then when we add to this soup of psycho-emotional flaring, the element of Love. Full-fledged love affairs produce rippling effects that are highly unlikely to end well, in any regard. Men have a tough time regaining a woman’s love if she has been betrayed for another woman’s love. Women have an even tougher time. Men universally refuse to forgive a woman a higher percent of the time than women do men.
Nonetheless, statistics aside, if you are in such a relationship you must deal with the love issue first; infidelity as the effect of something missing second. If your mate is made to believe that - all transgressions out for all to see - you had a choice of partner for the remainder of your life but you still chose him/her you have gone a long way to at least be considered for reconciliation. If the situation is reversed (situation; not parties) and you are trying to get back a mate who wants someone more than he/she does you, then you definitely have your work cut out for you.
The two of you should engage in serious discussions and accept the fact that you will not have a genuine outcome that both of you can live with unless you get professional help.
If you are trying to get ex back from an infidelity-damaged relationship, or if you plan to win your ex back from the brink of disaster because of a history of infidelity you may find these concepts helpful. Regardless, you may find that trying to get your ex back might be met with a partner who feels the same way.
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Author Resource:-> James Roberts is Senior Article Editor for What-Why-How researching and writing on numerous topics including how to get ex back and real solutions for how to get your ex back that work fast!
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