How is one to know if their partner is cheating? Most experts agree that people have a way of feeling that something is just not right. Even if it cannot be adequately explained people with cheating mates often know - even in advance of evidence. Well, then, how does one go about determining if, indeed, they have reason to be concerned?
Obviously the real proof is in clear evidence, but there are dead giveaways. They fall, not surprisingly, in two categories: Pluses and Minuses.
Things present that were not there before:
1. Greater than normal concern for hygiene. This signals either a forced intent to appear better than normal - the sign of a guilty conscience. It might also be to hide other fragrances or odors.
2. More time spent online. Often this can be when you are away or later at night. This kind of increased online time often signals secretive communications.
3. More disagreements. Here the experts agree, as well, as cheaters often use an argument as an excuse for leaving abruptly.
4. More low-tone cell phone calls. This one is pretty obvious to anyone with half a brain.
5. Lying. Yes, this is another biggie. Oftentimes partners who are cheating will make mistakes or do other things that are unexplainable and these must be covered with lies. If it becomes necessary for them to lie again to cover the first lie, it is possible for them to be caught in both lies. Need we say more?
Things that are absent that use to be there:
A. Time spent away. Clearly another biggie, missing time just points to it being spent elsewhere and typical excuses get old over time.
B. The absence of previously enjoyed shared activities. If the two of you used to enjoy hobbies or time out and you do not now that should tell you something.
C. Missing Lovemaking. The best evidence of all. It usually signals that your mate has found rapture in the arms of another.
D. Missing Conversation. Cheating-filled relationships simply witness reduced communication of all kinds. While not as shocking as a lie or lipstick stained collar, it is a prime indicator nonetheless.
E. Disappearance of social contacts. Often this signals an awareness by your friends, either stated or felt, that there is something afoot and they are uncomfortable being around you both.
If your mate is exhibiting any of these signs you may well have a cheater on your hands. If this causes a flare-up or a full-blown confession then you both have your work cut out for you.
If you are trying to get ex back from a cheating scenario that caused a split, or if you plan to win your ex back if cheating was suspected but never confirmed, understanding these signs may help to get your ex back.
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Author Resource:-> James Roberts is Senior Article Editor for What-Why-How researching and writing on numerous topics including how to get ex back and real solutions for how to get your ex back that work fast!
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