Most women have absolutely no understanding of how to communicate with Men. Psychologists and psychiatrists even get this wrong - applying as most women do - some attempt at a logical explanation of this and other male challenges. This is really critical and evident when a woman is trying to get information from a man on their first date.
Obviously it is critical to understand the impact of the nature of the woman doing the asking. If she is right-brained she will naturally be more emotionally driven and, therefore, ask more qualitative questions. Left-brained women will typically ask more quantitative questions - and lots of them, unfortunately.
If you start with an understanding of how men think and then transition that understanding into making conversation it will be much more informative than simply a list of dos and don’ts.
Men process information differently than do women and this variance is rarely understood by women. Because of this lack of knowledge, its importance is rarely a consideration when a woman is talking to a man - first date or otherwise.
Men are much less biologically evolved than women and - as mutations from just after conception - that is why we are bed wetters, bipolar, and serial killers. We men are totally driven by biological instinct. Men naturally assign a priority to any cognitive thought pattern before it is executed. While all humans, certainly including women, do this to varying degrees it is noteworthy that men do it with a great degree of importance and control. Men view any conversation that does not contribute significantly to the advancement of probability in completing a task or achieving an objective as being totally unnecessary. The exception to this rule is the ‘comment’ that is observatory and while not contributing materially to problem resolution, is tolerated. Again, this is typically missed entirely by most women. Any discussion about themselves that is interrogatory is suspect - unless it contributes something to a task or goal. If the goal is getting into bed with a woman - even on the first date - he will likely participate much more willingly in such a conversation that in most other conversations. Other exceptions to the “No Progress; No Participation” rule are things like Job Interviews.
Therefore, in order for a woman to communicate successfully with a man - especially on a first date - it is critical for her to sprinkle her overt questions out carefully throughout the conversation. Avoiding direct - “How fast do you run the 100?” - will prevent his shutting down and ending any positive outcome from the conversation.
{Offering a comment on an area of interest will allow the man to make his own observations. | Making a comment - remember comments of an observatory nature are always allowed - about relationships, for instance, will give him the opportunity to comment back or add his perspective. It is from the content of that reply or related replies that will provide the answer that she is seeking - rather than asking the question bluntly.
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